Re: Help! Approacing a girl at the gym?
Aww Gym game I love and hate this venue. There is no hot girls at my gym currently I scared them all away I am afraid, too bad so sad. Let me tell you what happened. Saw buff guy talking to hot chick HB8. Unhindered when she got done and went into the spare room I moved in to attack but used the wrong opener on her as I went in weak, she was laughing and giving strong IOI's but rejected me for the N-close cuz again I used the wrong opener. I saw her checking me out and that was going to be my opener "Hey I saw you checking me out so I thought it would have been polite to say hi." Instead I went in weak and got blown out quick.
Second target HB8 looking super fine and super freaky. Cleavage hanging out second time I seen her (first time unapproachable in her car) second time I seen her was in the Gym. She was hanging around me but I was ignoring her (bad move I'll tell you why) she was flirting with a buff guy and approached him and I was thinking two things (one she likes him, two she is playing him to get to me) yeah it was option two. The reason being? I got hindered by fearing she liked this other guy when she was talking to him to impress me cuz she didn't give a rat's arse about him and vanished after I failed to open due to AA. She never was seen or heard from again! She was giving me strong eye contact so I know I went Beta and should have approached her THAT DAY but chickened out so she gave up and ran away.
But anyway know that I know how to work Gym game may venture there again one day just saying it is EXTREMELY difficult and I have given up on it a little bit. But as far as what you are saying I would say yeah go ahead and talk to her. Don't wait around at the lockers like you said but usually there is no perfect moment so you got to roll with the punches and "create" a moment even if it is awkward at first. Try for when she is finishing a run or jog and not while she is in the middle of something as that would be rude. Don't attack her when other guys are on her, or when she is at the water fountain or leaving. But when she is freed up go for it and if she is giving you any strong eye contact, smiling, ANYTHING use that as an opener and go for it and try to N-close that broad. On a side note will probably switch Gyms come Feb since this Gym is nice but it is guys only type of venue.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.