Re: F-Close Fail. Super Upset. Epitome of my failure.
Nope no harsh opinions here from me bro. You did everything right sounds like you made not even the slightest error, your Inner Game was stellar to the core like a rock you stood in there. Now I am quick to point out people's problems but you got it going on dude. I guess we should chalk this one up to girl power. The epitome of a perfect ice cold shut down I hate it when that happens as I never have an exit strategy.
"You should leave" she says funny thing is a fair number of girls said the exact same thing to me when seemingly nothing was wrong. I think she's just protecting herself or her image she decided you weren't for her and hey it happens you can't win them all in fact I only win about 30% of the time when I close and then when I follow through maybe about 50% so I win about 15% of all girls I talk to but even less if I mess up so more like 5%. But hey better than doing nothing.
But I gotta give you something rather than nothing so might I suggest the slightest possibility? Again nothing you did wrong your part but judging "I'm dating someone at work" statement it sounds like a play on words because why would she be with you and not him? Makes you wonder right? Maybe it was a load of B.S. but either she sounds like relationship material and maybe she was expecting a flirty evening where you showed more of your potential and she may have sensed an incoming F-close and probably not in the mood but wanted a little more chemistry and dialog. Just saying she sounds like a tough nut to crack and that's my best guess.
P.S. You didn't fail, failure is not a factor in this game. You tried that's all that counts in this game. For next time you know maybe to act a little differently based on your reference experiences you gain. With enough experiences in enough situations you start to recognize patterns and well pick up where and when to break through. But I'm sure you already knew that but a reminder never hurts.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.