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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    The fact she took the time to write a lengthy text is a good sign. It shows that she was invested.

    Also overthinking/overreacting is not good as it only reflects anxiety = lack of confidence. All this does is reinforce the belief that you are not good enough.

    Just go with the flow and be the best of you. Just think how your friends/acquaintances/or anyone you know who are not PUAs got their girlfriends.

    Do get busy with other chicks in the meantime. Consider them as batting practice so you will be ready for the real game when girl A returns.

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Do something other than movies. Movies is a long amount of time together without getting to build comfort or attraction, just dead time. Great move not responding when she said she was busy. That is a great move. Then start back up in a few days.
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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Hey guys, just a small update:


    The game is still going on. I text her like once per week (sometimes on a Saturday, other times on a week day) to not let her forget about me. I tell her about the stuff I am doing and try to DHV.

    Seems like it's working. One time, she replied to my text within 5 mins. I wrote her this Monday again and she replied the next day (she sent 6 sms at once!). I think she likes the fact that I am interested in her, hehe.

    We both come from the same country and am going back home within a tenday. Do you think I should meet her or just do my thing (I have plenty of family and friends to visit anyway)?

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Another small update:

    We keep texting like once per week. Last message of her was about her decorating the house with Christmas stuff and her brother making fun of her because it started looking like a circus. I thought of testing the waters, teased her and asked for a pic. She never got back, lol. The good news is that she told me she is coming back as of mid-January, so I might be able to game her properly. On the other hand, I have the impression this is going nowhere. There are times where I simply want to give up and move on. Apart from the fact that she still replies to my texts (which could be out of politeness, since I tried to help her with her job-hunting), I have yet to see any IOIs.

    Ok, we only met twice... I could also tell she was shy (avoiding eye contact at the beginning). I would really like to take things further but I don't know how to proceed or even it is too late now...

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    I have the impression this is going nowhere.
    if that's how you feel, then that's probably whats going on.

    There are times where I simply want to give up and move on.
    you should be gaming multiple girls at the same time so you don't have to give up on her, you just focus more on other girls for a while and then come back to game her when your better at it.

    Apart from the fact that she still replies to my texts (which could be out of politeness, since I tried to help her with her job-hunting), I have yet to see any IOIs.
    friend-zoned!

    Ok, we only met twice... I could also tell she was shy (avoiding eye contact at the beginning). I would really like to take things further but I don't know how to proceed or even it is too late now...
    look, with most girls either you bang em or you don't, theres not much in between. you've gotta learn to stop waisting time on un-bang-able girls (girls who are out of your reach) and spend time on the girls within your reach. you're game will improve and you'll find more and more girls within you're reach as you get better.

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Meteora basically got everything down. But NEVER ASK FOR PICS it ruins everything that you worked for. The second you do that you bring out your afc and you've destroyed the reputation that you've built. Never. Ever. Ask. For. Pics.
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Meteora basically got everything down. But NEVER ASK FOR PICS it ruins everything that you worked for. The second you do that you bring out your afc and you've destroyed the reputation that you've built. Never. Ever. Ask. For. Pics.
    Wait, I am confused here. I asked a pic of the decorations, not of herself. How is that AFC? (sorry for asking, but these things are not so obvious to me for some reason, and that is why I suck at gaming gals).

    But, yeah, Meteora is right. I don't know if I even stood a chance in the first place. Nevertheless, I keep being friendzoned no matter what I do. My case is hopeless and no amount of PUA training is helping...

    Anyway, I am taking a break for a while. Will hit the gym, lose weight and focus on other things...
    Thanks for the feedback anyway. I appreciate it

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    Default Re: Date this week - need advice please

    Oh nvm then I got you wrong. My mistake.
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can


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