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Thread: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what now?

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    If you can absolutely isolate, then escalate. However don't isolate too quickly or that will look wired to others.

    The drinking part no big deal I usually shy away from it when I am with the ladies anyway.
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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    when i was at her place i didn't drink, just water. she asked about it though. its kinda complicated, I'm not sure if this is reason enough to say i can't go to a bar w/ her and not drink.

    when I got there she offered me a drink and I said no thank you maybe later then she left to play host or someone called her over or something. i think she was called over but i don't remember for sure. so she introduced me to her roommate and left. her roommate offered me a drink and i answered the same but my medicines side effect is dry mouth and it was worsened by nerves and i slurred real bad. bad enough that i stopped and said it again real slowly but i made a joke about doing so (not the first time, its not a good joke and not worth the hit because its self depreciating but its enough to cover and its better to acknowledge your goof then to pretend it didn't happen) then it occurred to me to explain it in away that every one there would get and would explain my being so late. i told them i was already too drunk and it wasn't my first halloween party of the night and needed to sober up a little before i drank. the roommate laughed at my slowed down repeat like i intended and offered me water after the explanation. i drank water the rest of the night.
    at the end of the night katelyn asked if i had enough to drink then remembered i just drank water and asked if i was sober enough to drive and as i type this is occurs to me that both those questions could have double meanings
    offering more alcohol-if it were a guy giving it to a girl id assume he wanted to sleep with her
    sober enough to drive-can you make it home, maybe you should stay here a little longer/ if genders were reversed id think she wanted take advantage
    now what i was typing seems moot and i have more questions about what i just typed

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    is my mind that twisted or does that actually make sense

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    You typed your way around it.... So I wouldn't be too worried about later this week hone in the basics I linked you. You can go out with her to a bar there is no law stating to be at a bar you must drink alcohol. If asked why you don't drink you should say personal choice I enjoy drinking whatever instead.

    By saying it is by choice it makes you alpha and you aren't like everyone else double bonus.

    Lastly, yeah it is a bit late to figure that out now and you missed out that time but sounds like you got a chance next time so now you know to listen to what she means not what she says.

    Other editorial you aren't tho only one who chooses not to drink in situations like that I prefer remembering and enjoying the results of my game not working hard for a drunken partial memory
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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    ok, hows this one. I'm trying out tinder. i got one match (theres a glitch that won't let me fix or change my pics) and i messaged hey rockstar this morning. she messaged me "Sup?? Luv ur pic and wanna chat, u ready? I prefer email over txt to start, let's set something up, IM *********@********.* ***"

    what can I say to that? if i do email i follow her frame but its tinder so she gets 1000's of people.

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    That one I am not going to have much help on, I was toying with electronic dating sites for last few months but found it not to be my thing. Too many scammers and too many pictures where inaccurate in real life.
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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    this is my first time and my first match. a bunch of girls (including katelyn, actually) were raving about tinder so i thought id give it a try. the problem is its intended to be mock texting so u don't have scammers and my first one doesn't like text.

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    Definitely try going somewhere. Even coffee works. The beauty of drinks is that girls are more likely to sleep with you after drinks than coffee. It has nothing to do with the effects of alcohol. It has to do with their programming. Women have been conditioned to have sex more after drinks at a bar than a cup of coffee or food. It helps if you order an alcoholic beverage if you're in a bar with her, or order a diet coke and lime while she's in the bathroom, so it at least looks like you're drinking. Not drinking if she's drinking hurts comfort.

    But, much better to push for instadate than not. Also, have a plan for how to end up at a sex location.

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    Either way with the drinking issue works but the whole point is if you don't and she asks it is only personal preference or decision. Not you not feeling like it tonight, or any other excuse. Making it a decision means you are in control of what you do which is alpha.

    Or if you want you can have captain and coke hold the captain. Lol

    But good points above especially the plan to get her to chosen location of sex. Don't make it complicated just think of a few good transition plans every detail need not be decided . Overplanning insures failure
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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    ok. what about talking to her after? if i try to hang out with her after class tomorrow i don't have her number. It's probably not important because we r Facebook friends so she could reach me there but can I ask her for her # AND to go to the bar because it seems like no. If not, and I go to her place and we have sex or make out or even just a kiss and I leave, we don't have each other's #'s. Is that ok or do u have some kind of play play, like a game or something while we're at the bar, to trade #'s?

    also a girl on tinder messaged me first. her "Hey! Nice bum, where ya from?!?"
    (b4 u ask, there are no ass/bum pics on my profile) me ""lol thanks - Chicago - you ?" her "Chicago too" I feel like she didn't really give me anything unless I'm not seeing it. any ideas to reply cause i got nothin?


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