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Thread: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what now?

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    I can draw, what do u recommend?

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    Be creative ..... Maybe a scarf lol whatever works
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    If you memorized the cube that would work well on the chalk board
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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    For the scarf joke should I say it kinda stone-faced (I forget the right term) kinda your making a joke but it's not obvious like you are almost just commenting or should I smirk, smile, whatever. Turning it into a laugh.

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    She wore a different scarf. Suggestions?

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    Term is dead pan. Don't worry about the scarf joke.

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    Nothing happened. At all. Not even close. She did not wait. I caught up discreetly cause she stopped near some stairs I could take so I walked by, noticed the other scarf, and commented. She forgot the joke. I said you must've been drunker than I thought, "oh, did I miss a joke I hate that" and she gave me a look that was obviously explain it to me. I said when I left Friday we went in your room and on your bed was just my coat and your scarf then she remembered. I think she laughed it was kinda weird though. It was clear that I should just keep walking.

    We talked a little as a group. She asked me a few prying(?) questions. She commented on how she wouldn't want to date a military man, especially not active, knowing I was ex army. She asked what I was doing now and kinda if I liked it and if I was going to pursue acting professionally now (which at the time I thought sounded like "are you definitely done serving")
    We only had a 10 min break and the teacher came back before I could improve the convo cause there was a new student who kinda engrossed her. I talked to them both though for most of it but they did that girly rapid talk thing once and I gave up but they slowed quickly and I was involved again
    She sat next to me at one point and she didn't need to but it didn't feel like anything but a convenience for her to see better.

    because of the other girl, i didn't have time to ask her about her self

    I thought maybe I thought maybe i should ask her about a thanksgiving party next week when i see her, try to recreate the situation a bit.

    as far as after tonight, my new theory is there was some attraction formed during the last class (possibly because instead of trying talk or smiling at her trying be appealing, I spent a lot of it looking at her (during the few times I did) through squinted eyes, trying figure out what was going on (in her mind possibly sizing her up). On Friday i showed up when she was already tipsy so that + the small attraction I built + possibly the added edge from the pheromones triggered a response and when I didn't pursue her (honestly I put more effort into her roommate and sister which wasn't much since they both felt unavailable) it made her want me. When I left I entered the borderline friend zone. I don't feel like I'm in there but today I felt like she was sizing me up, like she wasn't sure if maybe that's what I should be. The reason I didn't get her # or ask her to the bar is because the girl she was talking to introduced herself to her by mentioning a guy hitting on her and the subject of stupid ask outs came up and she said she hates when people just say out of nowhere and since I couldn't talk much I felt like asking after was too out of nowhere. She had also said she might be meeting someone after (I think she said a friend but I didn't hear for sure) and she was checking her phone and I thought it would be weird to wait or offer to wait.

    I also kinda felt like since I was circling the friend zone I should step back, regroup, and figure out something I can say that would subtly knock me out. Something under the radar that would put me on hers. The scarf thing not working means she forgot what she felt last week.

    Do u have an idea what I can say to knock me from katelyns friend zone radar b4 it's solid? Sexual implication is definitely good on her but I'm not sure how to be subtle
    I dont think I'm friend zone. i think I'm more than "nothing" now but i think she hasn't placed me in friend or potential lover either. i think if i had moved on friday, i would be the latter but not moving may have made her question the attraction she built. I think today she may have been testing me and I think I played it well enough to keep me out for now but i need a set of lines i can use to secure my ground.

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    Default Re: I think she wanted sleep with me but i missed it. Il c her soon, what n

    Take a look at "Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP" its the other forum about this and i got some heavy new info yesterday.


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