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    Question Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    Hi there, I've recently become acquainted with a European exchange student. We've went clubbing a couple of times, which led to dancing, and led to a makeout session the last time we hung out.

    The next day, I texted her to ask if she'd like to come to dinner with me, but she said that she's not willing to date anyone here, but that she has fun with me, and that we can always party together... I understand where she's coming from in regards to dating, since she's only going to be here for a short time.

    So Mr. Expert, even though we had a sexy makeout session, is her saying that she doesn't want to date anyone here code for not wanting to have sex as well?

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    This website sucks dick. Peace.

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    I hope your set burns straight into the ground.

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    And I hope your piss melts the toilet from an STD.

    Edit: Please ban me from this gay ass website.

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    Ok, tough love session starts now.

    Gentlemen leave the name calling at the login screen.

    Patience is key wait a bit more than a day for a response.

    Information helps greatly the more you can provide the better.

    With what information was provided above this is my conclusion and this is the tough love part
    You are dealing with a typical irresponsible party girl or hoe. Sex isn't out of the equation but if it happens don't expect it to be exclusive. I cannot be sure that this is correct because I am only working with what information I have available to me provided on your post.

    The decision from here is all up to you and only you. Not responsible for any bad things that happen if you decide to have sex with her or not. Be honest though there are a lot of potential bad things that may happen if you do, like any other girl, but you also have that compounded by her being a temporary visitor from another country so extra thought should be used.

    As for the edit above grow a spine and walk away yourself if you think that this site cannot help you but leave slanderous remarks out of it . Using gay to describe something is rather archaic and cliche of the early nineties. Not judging just saying surely you can insult better than that.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    Look if you're going to insult me, at least make it personal so it'll hurt my feelings.
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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    Wasnt there just a thread recently about this sort of thing? The guys who expect something specific.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    Quote Originally Posted by Cleatus View Post
    Hi there, I've recently become acquainted with a European exchange student. We've went clubbing a couple of times, which led to dancing, and led to a makeout session the last time we hung out.

    The next day, I texted her to ask if she'd like to come to dinner with me, but she said that she's not willing to date anyone here, but that she has fun with me, and that we can always party together... I understand where she's coming from in regards to dating, since she's only going to be here for a short time.

    So Mr. Expert, even though we had a sexy makeout session, is her saying that she doesn't want to date anyone here code for not wanting to have sex as well?

    #1- Decide what you want from her.
    If you want to Date her, it sounds like she won't be down.

    #2-, If she wants to "party," and you had a make-out session, it sounds like she simply wants a "discrete party buddy while she is in town." She's a chick chicks are horny like guys.

    #3- Talk to her about STD's. I am not sure how. But you don't want to get something you know.

    #4- Figure out if you will get attached after sex. And if you care if she will being seeing other guys.

    If you do care, and assuming she wants no-strings attached party, than save yourself the heartache and move on.

    IF YOU DOWN FOR NO STRINGS ATTACHED PARTYING, go for it man!

    Ask her if she has a condom. Here are possible responses:

    Guy: Do you have a condom.

    If Girl Says anything that implies that you want sex and implies she doesn't, simply say "Oh, I just need a condom. Met a new chick and just need one."

    If girl says anything that implies she wants sex, than it would seem your in. (Pros, please correct anything I am saying. Thanks!)

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    you should bust her chops and ask her how going out to dinner equals you guys dating ??? be playful and pretend you are surprised by her thinking you are trying to date her

    as a side note let me just say that European women and Scandinavian women are AMAZING and nothing like American women

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    Default Re: Exchange student won't date, but is down to "party"

    I think that WebDude420 is on the right track. The next step for you is to make sure that you go out with her another night similar to the one that ended with a makeout session. However, do not directly ask her what she is doing that night. Ask her close friend or someone that you know that knows this information. Once you go out again act casual, like you are not into as much as you were the other night. this will make her a little jealous since she did say she had fun with you and wants to keep partying. If you take that option out of the equation just slightly for a night, she will want you even more. That's when you make your move. as far as sex is concerned. Hold out for now and then after two or three more make out sessions then try what WebDude420 said or anything you feel comfortable with. Hope this helps. Anyone want to bash on my advice go for it. Good luck man keep us updated.


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