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Thread: First date went well, second date issues

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    Default First date went well, second date issues

    Juggling multiple girls, some things working with certain types some are not. This is one i am stuck on how to progress....

    Blond HB8 Girl: She is 30, I am 42. Met online...First date went well, she suggested going out to play pool after dinner, lots of kissing & close contact. She suggested second date that night, we loosely set date & activity, taking dogs for walk in park on Sunday afternoon and said to txt her. Sent regular after date txt which she responded well to. We had quick txt exchange on Halloween, and then i initiated 2 days before second date to solidify just saying Hey..how is it going? Crickets... I sent another 2 days later similar opener..... she responds saying sorry, working a lot and needs to rest. I replied saying get some rest and nothing back in 24+ hrs. Any ideas on how to get her back interested?

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    Default Re: First date went well, second date issues

    Freeze out for 3 days to a week, then re-engage with different approach all together, maybe something along the lines of going to blank place at blank time you should join me it will be fun. Note make it something that could be pretty fun.

    The freeze out isn't punishment it is just to evade the clingyness look,
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    Default Re: First date went well, second date issues

    I'm with hometown on this one, it takes away any feeling of neediness and it gives the premise that you will, with or without her, have a good time. Could be a sh1t test just to see your reaction, I know women are good at seeing how we will react in their custom given situation. Good luck.
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    Default Re: First date went well, second date issues

    No response for a week like hometown says. Maybe even longer unless she texts first. I would not even respond back if she said she was busy. Just leave it a few days. Shows less neediness. Conditions her to realize that a positive message from her gets an immediate response and attention while her pushing off a date results in no attention.

    Doing great. Just give it some time


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