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Thread: women are all around me and I have nothing to say

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    Default women are all around me and I have nothing to say

    I'm losing my mind guys. I want to clarify that I'm *NOT* saying that I have problems with the physical act of talking with women.

    But I have nothing to say. I'm not trying to win them over with a line but I need something.I want something beyond 'how're you doing'. I want to be able to initiate a back and forth conversation.

    I know you guys are able to do it. I need guidance and I can't turn to anyone else. What are you guys saying to women around you to build attraction.

    If you see a woman standing somewhere, what do you say to her? I would really appreciate this.

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    Default Re: women are all around me and I have nothing to say

    Ask questions that have no one word answer. Asking for her opinion on something is a good start. Even if it is something completely outlandish.

    Observe your surroundings they can provide plenty of random things to ask opinions on.

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    Is it just me or is that picture frame crooked? Look at that person, who wears work boots with a tux? Do you think that person is having a seizure or dancing? ..... If you are somewhere shopping you have shelves and shelves of material at your disposal.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: women are all around me and I have nothing to say

    Quote Originally Posted by kye View Post
    I'm losing my mind guys. I want to clarify that I'm *NOT* saying that I have problems with the physical act of talking with women.

    But I have nothing to say. I'm not trying to win them over with a line but I need something.I want something beyond 'how're you doing'. I want to be able to initiate a back and forth conversation.

    I know you guys are able to do it. I need guidance and I can't turn to anyone else. What are you guys saying to women around you to build attraction.

    If you see a woman standing somewhere, what do you say to her? I would really appreciate this.
    You need to break rapport. Tease, neg, role play, disqualify, play physical games, nicknames.

    Having fun is the most important thing. If the girl sees you having fun, then she will enjoy being with you and talking to you. Make observations about things going on around you. You need to be in the moment. Women can tell when you are in your head versus fully present, saying whatever is going on.

    I know none of this advice was completely concrete. There are so many variables that can affect the exact conversation I would have. Does that help?

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    Default Re: women are all around me and I have nothing to say

    It doesn't matter what you say, just start talking. Yes, you will screw up a LOT at first but pretty soon you will begin to get more comfortable in initiating a conversations.

    We learn from trail and error so go into the field and just start saying hi to the HBs. No risk , no reward.


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