Re: women are all around me and I have nothing to say
Ask questions that have no one word answer. Asking for her opinion on something is a good start. Even if it is something completely outlandish.
Observe your surroundings they can provide plenty of random things to ask opinions on.
Is it just me or is that picture frame crooked? Look at that person, who wears work boots with a tux? Do you think that person is having a seizure or dancing? ..... If you are somewhere shopping you have shelves and shelves of material at your disposal.
Learn to be a better person not a better player.