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    Default No clue on what to do with my emotions

    So I really don't know where to start. I guess I'll start from the time I first met her.
    I think it was like last years, my sister had met this new girl. They started hanging out a lot around the house. I really didn't care because at the time, I was just ps3 and stupid sh*t like that. So that day I introduced myself, I really didn't like her because.... Well I don't know. So I saw her in school, ignored her. Keep in my mind my sisters was a senior and she was a 10 grader. So I just kept minding my own business, and went on with my life. Parties, parties, and well parties. I didn't even remmember her untill she came over to our house again. This time my sister had to help out with cooking or something I really can't remmember. So she just sat on the other couch and watched me play call of duty. 20 minutes later, she asks if she could play. I said sure and handed her another controller. So an hour or two went on. Then my sister got back and she left, then she came back again. Except this time we made conversation like how's school bla bla bla. Then we get to know each other even more, she slept over in our house that day. But I didn't see her untill breakfast. She added me on Facebook so I accepted. We started the usual conversation, and I guess we knew a lot about each other. Then, shit got real. I asked her for her number she gladly gave it to me. I messaged her later on that day and she replied an hour later. So now the very next week , she asks for a ride home because her ride didn't show, she was my neighbour so I gladly accepted. She told me to start answering her messages, i really couldn't bother waiting an hour for a response. So I just told her something like, I'm a busy person. She lagged and said she would start answering faster, because I think she got the hint. I am not even joking when I say we texted all day. She even started calling me at some point. So I played it cool. This year. My sister went off to college, so now she's taking to school every morning and I'm dropping her off. I have no problem with that, but if I knew where it would lead me to now, I wouldn't have even texted her. By this point I liked her. We got really close that I just got over her and became close friends with her. On the weekend my parents invited my uncle, and his wife and daughter. So they asked me to invite my neighbour. Like a retard I gladly did. She came over and we sat talked bla bla. So I grew a lot closer to her then I should have. Because the next time we met outside of school was at her place for a go away party for one of my friends. I guess they were close to. Anyways life went on, I went home. Then, I went over to her house the next wekend. Except this time. No one else was there. Nothing happened except in made her do my homework , then I guess she made me come over the next weekend but her friend was there. I decided not to go to her house for a while. To play it cool I guess. I guess that leads up to present day. I mean emotional attraction. Was grown, I had a house party last week and she wasn't invited. Well because it was my class only. So I felt bad and when everyone left I invited her over for billards. She came at 12 and left by 12:30. Nothing much happened. So present day. Looking back there was a lot of kino, hugging. Well mostly hugging. She doesn't really date it's anymore after what happened in her previous relationship. I guess occasional she puts one foot over my leg thing. Or she lays down on me. (Not sexually). So now she invited me for my birthday to go to this country close by. It's like an hour driving and a lot of people do it. I said sure, I'm having lunch with her parents then I guess we're alone after it. I'm not sure about what to do and how to act, but I assume winging it is the best option. I grew a lot of attraction towards her, I don't think she feels the same way. I mean I actually started having dreams about her, both emotional and sexual. This actually seems odd to me though. I guess she is an HB 7, but to me I really like her. So I need advice right now, she's in 11th grade I'm in 10th. I know I'm not supposed to be posting her, but I ran out of ideas. My friend told me to come here as my last resort. And I'm running out of options now. Any help would be appreciated
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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    You are overthinking everything. The two of you obviously have a great relationship, but it is 100% platonic unless you escalate. The longer you are with a girl and don't escalate, farther into friend zone you go. I would highly recommend kissing her when you are alone with her. If she is not interested, you very well can damage your relationship, at least momentarily but it's probably worth it. Do not compare your relationship with her to her previous relationship. Just worry about you. Don't try to solve her problems for you. The two of you do not need to go on an official date to hook up, just kiss next time you're together, and if highly recommend going all the way.

    I can imagine you have strong feelings for her and think she is very social because she is the first girl you've had feelings for. Trust me, she is just as unique as any other girl out there, you just have her on a high pedestal from knowing her so long.

    Determine if it's worth putting yourself out there to move the relationship forward (I highly recommend you do) and understand she may want to spend less time with you if she's not interested, but that wouldn't be a bad thing either because it would give you more time to check out other girls and try gaming girls from scratch.

    Good luck. Let me know if you have questions.

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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Remember these things at this stage in your life are about going with the flow. It is the times where you should be risking it all to win all or nothing. After all when she hits the end of twelfth grade and graduates unless you are together likely face book is the only place you will see her.

    If you don't try you will likely wonder about it the rest of your life.
    If you try and fail she will likely be slightly more distant but you have closure
    If you try and succeed well need I say more

    So put that into prospective, if you want her and don't go for it you get what you have now which I gather as torn emotions and second place or the blue ribbon loss. Or you can go for it and have a fifty fifty shot
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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    You said something about kissing her, but idk I mean I'm to scared to do that. And plus shouldn't I. Wait until next year because honestly I'm not a big fan of being rejected. This happened twice already. Also she isn't the first girl I've liked.
    Last question, let's say I do plan on kissing her, how do I do it?

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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Unless you are showing attraction and that it is something other than friendship the friend zone binds you harder and harder the longer you spin your tires the deeper the hole you get yourself into. So time is not on your side, but neither is your mindset if you believe you are friend zoned you are. If you believe she could be yours then make it happen.

    Tune in your basics improve body language, framing and your use of kino. Isolate escalate and go get your woman.

    The mystery method kiss close works well here let me know if you don't know what I mean
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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Sorry I don't, I have the game by Neil Strauss, I can read it now if you think I should

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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Won't hurt that's for sure.

    This link should help you quicker than reading the book though it is paraphrased in a post

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/2...lose-what.html
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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Kiss close is big sticking point lots of good articles on here search tab helps a lot
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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    Sorry to bother you, but quick question. All this adivce, doesnt only work for adults. and not for people my age?

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    Default Re: No clue on what to do with my emotions

    At your age location is very key, not a good idea at school, but the human nature is still the same. You can use and or adapt everything to any give age group but, the mystery kiss close is a winner in any properly executed application.

    If she says yes go for it

    Maybe say lets find out and go for the kiss

    If she says no reply I didn't say that you could you just looked like you had something on your mind.

    No wrong move
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