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Thread: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

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    Default How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    Hey guys,

    I know in a text game the last thing you need is to sound needy. So, after a first txt message, if she does not respond, I would wait a bit and try again, but what should I say then?

    Also, what if I am texting with a girl a couple of times, I ask her out, she confirms, but then when I setup a date she stops responding? Should I simply wait out and try a similar text again?

    Thx guys

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    Default Re: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    wait a week then send another text. don't call on her flaking or anything. act like everything is cool

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    Default Re: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyEffect View Post
    wait a week then send another text. don't call on her flaking or anything. act like everything is cool
    Yes this, and:
    1. Just look at the big list of PUA text messages via google, if you're lazy.

    2. If you want to make a structural change a great source for getting really good at text/ phone game is "Braddock & Mr M - The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game"

    3. One very important thing that is often overlooked is the connection. You build a certain connection with a girl during your initial interaction. Make this come back in your texts (especially the first). If she is a student, tease her on being a nerd, if she came from a small town, ask if she went to school on a horse, etc. Don't overdo it though.

    All the best,

    Yogi

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    Default Re: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    Never double text.... ever. If she's not responding, than it's because your first text wasn't interesting. Stay away from Hi's and Hello's, they're terrible. Try a classic cliff hanger tomorrow afternoon.
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    Default Re: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    Solid advice from bimmer you don't want boring texts and bobby I has a very valid point too if you text a lot she will loose interest quickly texting is usually when you are a busy person and if you aren't doing anything you are boring. So even if you aren't doing anything fake it even if it is laundry turn it into an adventure. But texting too many follow ups makes it look like you have nothing better to do, as well as can get annoying.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: How to followup if she does not respond to texts

    and too many texts can come across as CREEPY ...... if you don't get a response ( and trust me we have all been there ) wait a day or two and re-engage with somethine new, and different .... and always remember
    Being random works.
    And by that I mean completely random.
    Random times and random subjects. It makes her think you're out doing fun stuff and have a cool life.
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