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    Hey all - so I met this older chick at a shady bar she's "29" though looks 35 and I'm 24.

    Our last texts were this:

    Me: Just had a life changing cup of coffee. Hope you're having a good morning too.

    Her: ahahah... you'll have to explain that one.

    Me: Yes, it was a surprising experience.

    Me: Oh btw, congrats on penetrating my dream last night.

    At this point I wanted to sexualize a bit talking about my dream and shit.

    Where do you guys think i messed up?

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyEffect View Post
    Hey all - so I met this older chick at a shady bar she's "29" though looks 35 and I'm 24.

    Our last texts were this:

    Me: Just had a life changing cup of coffee. Hope you're having a good morning too.

    Her: ahahah... you'll have to explain that one.

    Me: Yes, it was a surprising experience.

    Me: Oh btw, congrats on penetrating my dream last night.

    At this point I wanted to sexualize a bit talking about my dream and shit.

    Where do you guys think i messed up?

    Hey man, great job getting the number. Also, I respect you want to know what you did wrong. So many guys want to fix mistakes they made when a set is already in recovery. Rather, you are trying to correct the mistake for the future. Perfect!

    First, I'm 25 ( pretty close in age to you). 29 is not old. Yes, she is a couple years older, but 5 years as close to nothing as you can get. If you have a 29 year old that acts odd about it, you probably acted awkward which triggered her to feel awkward. Anytime an older woman mentions that you are too young, agree and then embellish how much older she is than you (Ex. "I know, lay some wisdom on me" "You're right. I need a baby sitter" "You're right, you and my grandma would really hit it off" all with the world's BIGGEST smile on your face)

    How far did you get with this girl?

    Mistake #1: Double Texting- Never double text, it's needy
    Mistake #2: Qualifying (telling her too much about yourself)- it's needy, you want her to invest, not you ("Just had a life changing cup of coffee" "Yes, it was a surprising experience" "Oh, btw")- On a side note: She REALLY likes you for responding to that first text. You gave her no reason to
    Mistake #3: Showing too much interest ("Hope you're having a good morning too." congrats on penetrating my dream last night.")- Statements of interest in general should only be given as a reward for her investment in the interaction, and this amount of interest shouldn't be messaged ever, but if at any time after sex.
    Mistake #4: Not giving her something specific to respond to. It's best to end with a question or statement followed by a question mark. The question mark indicates to the woman she is supposed to respond. Best text you could have sent her was: "Hey [nickname you gave her at interaction] how's your morning ?" (Yes, I put a space between last work and "?" there is a higher response rate when you do that). Even with your first text, you would have had a higher chance of getting a response with "Hope your day is great too ?"

    She didn't respond to the last statement for 1 or both of these reasons: 1) she didn't know she was supposed to respond, since you closed the thread, 2) it was very direct

    Mistake #5: Not staying in set. Don't know the circumstances, but your chances are always best at the time of meeting her. When she leaves your side, even with phone number and agreement to meet back up, you are no longer in control of the situation. Unless I have things to do or she is at work, I stay in set even if bad or uncomfortable because at least I know she's in front of me, which gives me control of the set.


    You did a really great job. These are all bits and pieces I've picked up along the way, and I want to minimize your latency, so game can skyrocket. Please let me know if you have any questions about the feedback.

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    If she hasn't text you back yet it's because telling a girl you just met that you dreamt about her is just weird. Give it a day, then re initiate the convo with something simple and try set up a date quick as. There is soo much room for mistakes when texting that it's best to try keep it at a minimum.

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    Thanks a lot cdharders for your post.

    Well we had shots together and we went for a smoke. Talked about relationships and how she had a hard time finding a decent guy in this town; good connection.

    So what should I text her today? Invite her for drinks or for coffee? I don't really want to date her, just hookup.

    Thanks in advance guys!!

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    An easy txt opener at this point would be "hey, I just met the perfect guy for you. He's a really nice, decent person. Makes everyone laugh, the life of the party.. but he is a clown."

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    ..You came way too off.you sort of messed up when she ask you to explain that and you came up with another line like that.
    You subtley implied you had sex with another woman "life changing cup of cofee" stating it was a suprising experience and then linking it to a dream.
    She was attracted.resist asking her out for now.text her stating because she was a nice person you are going to tell on this.it not what she may have thought.

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    I would hold off a week then message "Scale of 1 - 10, how are you right now ?" To get conversation going again

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    Ok so quick update.

    She texted me today: hmmm...penetrating your dream? What was I doin?

    Me: A lot of parts were very blurry. But it was very vivid and intense.


    Lol then no answer. What does that mean? like why would she want to know then not text me back?

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    Great that's she's still responding. Id recommend focusing more on meeting than pushing this conversation any further. Especially this thread. She didn't respond because you gave her nothing to respond to. You left ball in her court rather than having a question or statement that required a response. I would have responded with something like "Lol fun - how's your day ?" Makes her keep thinking of what you're talking about and maintains the sexual tension. At the end of the day, you want her in your bed which means you need to meet up with her. Great job!

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    Default Re: Older Woman

    I'm with you, she's practically 40 .
    Also, you took my line mofo
    Just had a life changing cup of coffee.
    Only I say bowl of cereal instead haha. Nice though.

    I'd say you came off too strong. If a girl I just met was dreaming about me (even though she really has no control over that) it comes off to me as an IOI (unless I died in said dream). To a woman though, creeper. It's cool that she texted back, but the vibe is gone if she takes that long. Personally, would have ignored her for a day then hit her up.
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