Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP
Sorry, it was a bit of a test and an attention getter. You do archived the events well, but split second interpretation and memory gets things going on in our minds. When we look for something in that much information in a short time we happen to miss a lot. MY EXAMPLE IS OUT OF PROPORTION TO THE DESIRED INFORMATION but I have your attention. I believe that this one is wearing you out. You need a phase change that affects you outside this situation you are losing yourself in. I picked out something that had some familiarity to me just to sell this response. You seem to have lost yourself on the outcome. This is too uncomfortable because you seem to be exhausting yourself on the outcome rather than enjoying the time you share. Yes, the friend zone is a real danger. You have a great pool of all your past approach paths. Now you need to worry less about the endgame or potential friend zone and more about escalation and rebuilding attraction. From yet another direction or a calibrated previous direction that showed promise.
Categorize these events in a table bad/ neutral/ and good reaction
See what you notice for patterns. Develop list of what shows promise and what to avoid then use that combined list to create a good solid platform to continue from.
Post your results of what you learned from making that table doesn't have to be written in detail of whole event key ideas or situations suffice we can consult above to clarify.
Also, this situation seems to be getting you upset understandably but are you sure that it isn't showing in a non verbal way that you havn't been paying attention to. You have to focus on having fun as a ultimate goal as well. Stress/ sexual tension may kill you through non verbal distress.
Last edited by hometownextra; 11-14-2013 at 05:33 PM.
Reason: Missed point
Learn to be a better person not a better player.