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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    Part 2. the other girl.

    The other girl today I wanted mention is that girl I told you about that I thought had a bf. I noticed that since that day she hasn't seemed to text at all. I also thought it said Dan but iPhones use nicknames and she lives with her parents (she told me last week) so it coulda been dad. It was also so fast it coulda been a break up. it coulda been a lot of stuff.

    There are a couple subtle points. First off, she tends to do proximity lately. Today we had to move around for a lot of something's and there was a lot of proximity and some subtle mirroring. it all coulda been coincidence though. the only noteworthy one was at the end she kinda “squeezed” next to me in line. it wasn’t tight but there were other spots, then she kinda leaned towards me so we were real close.

    last week, she said she lived with her parents and they had 5 cats. she said she was an animal lover and i showed her that pick with me and my dog. this week i called her cat lady and she asked me how my beautiful dog was (i read not to use sympathy so i didn’t tell her we just found out he has a bone disease that will shorten his life) and she showed me her new journal (covered in cats) i made a few light teases through out class. my favorite was that she said she had been using her personal one for the class notes but she got this new one because it was getting confusing so i said “they start to blend together? you draw little hearts around meisners (a playwright we talked about) name?” we talked about the theatre i coincidentally went to yesterday and got maybe stood up (whatever u wanna call it) and they had a scene with a ton of cat puns which she got real excited about. said she wished she’d seen it. it should be easy to make that happen again so i thought id tell her “i was gonna try to go again, i want to see if i can get them to do another cat one. you should come.”
    she left before i thought of that but i figure i planted the idea or something.

    heres the kicker for BOTH of them. Im not in class next week so it'll be 2 weeks before i could do anything in person. I am facebook friends with both and my prof pic is the dog pic she loved. (this girls pic is face paint to make her look like a cat, y I'm calling her cat lady now. i figure rapport nickname)

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    Soo many evil ideas soo little time.

    There are a couple great ways to handle this one, but first indeed you to prioritize which one is most in your favor.
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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    I'm not sure I follow. I'd like to see if I could get "more" than friendship but I also feel like it's barely friendship.
    If you mean which girl, I like katelyn better but I kinda like jenny the cat lady

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    I'd just use them as leverage against each other in one sitting because you are "friends" with both of them. However, Kate may not capitulate to Jen trying to steal your attention from her. So it is a possible cat fight, but if they do like you both will qualify themselves to you. On there own they won't try to take steps because both think you aren't going anywhere. But get a situation with both of them and you together even in friendly context it should start one heck of a qualification race.

    Not I said evil ideas
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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    that makes more sense.will that still work if they are friends? i talked to them both yesterday and other than mild proximity & mirroring, they didn't really seem to rival.

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    It will if you keep the frame playful enough, I have another idea if they are friends though... Hmm evil ideas....
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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    they are friends so whats the other idea

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    Threesome, sorry but it does have potential.....

    Again I said evil
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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    oh. I thought you meant another idea to make them jealous. they are friends but i don't think they are close. I know she goes out with the girls from our last class. i thought you had to be closer with at least one of them. i don't even see how to initiate if I've barely had opportunities to touch.

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    I forgot to mention some ing about driving Katelyn home. First, the parking garage was a little bit of a maze and he way I had to circle made it hard to find my car. We walked around for a few min and talked while we looked for my car. I stared to feel awkward & embarressed and maybe she sensed it or maybe she felt it was a little weird but I sensed that she was a touch uncomfortable, that said she hid it well.
    When we found the car, there was a wall between, it was a weird enough garage that when we found it she said "weren't we just over there?" Which I think is when she let the weird go. I said "last time this happened, I just jumped the wall"
    Is it a congruency thing that she jumped without question, despite the fact that there was a small gap with a big fall, and we coulda kept walking?

    Also, in the car, she asked my age and I said "I'll be 23 in a couple months, in January" and she had this big reaction because we share the same month ("people with January birthdays are awesome!")
    She also firmly & intensely agreed that people shouldn't combine January birthday presents with Christmas/Chanukah presents, like my family does. I told her it bugs me when they do that & she emphatically agreed. Is that something?


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