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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    It means she hates getting her birthday presents with her Christmas presents. That's all. Though, it does mean you have a little in common as well and you could have made some lighthearted jokes. Commonalities, however small, are a good thing, they build rapport.

    However you look at this dude, your playing multiple girls, and even if you haven't got laid by any, its still miles ahead of many other guys around you. So well done.

    If these girls are friends, but they don't see each other much, I wouldn't worry about playing them against each other. In fact, just progress with each one individually. Separate yourself from hanging out with both of them at the same time. If you do hang with both of them your game is going to have to be uber tight to pull of smanging both of them. Save that for down the road. For now, isolate them. You can wait for your opportunity in a few weeks to see them, if that's where you feel most comfortable. Or instead, take some initiative. Send a message when she's online. Just start the conversation easy. "Hey there " For whatever reason, that always gets a response for me.

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    I should clarify that she said she couldn't imagine getting the gifts combined. She couldn't believe people do that to me. Does that mean anything different?

    The rest was pretty helpful. I never see her online but I don't typically look because I thought it was bad to do it through fbook. I'll start looking.

    What about her mentioning the kinda seeing bf. is that mean no go or am I still in?
    Cdharders says that she's not that into him but I like to get as many answers/explanations so I can see what makes sense.

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    Bad to message over Facebook if you have plenty of opportunity in person. Yes, definitely commonality. Nothing more to look into than that. Take with a grain of salt, but a woman is never truly off the market. That being said, there are times it makes sense to keep going and times it is best to call it a break. If she's kinda seeing a guy, they are not exclusive. They are still very much feeling each other out. No one can argue you're doing anything wrong by talking to her.
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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    I once approached a girl in Wal-Mart and striked up a conversation with her. I wasn't doing too bad, but I wasn't doing the greatest either. When I told her I need to be going and that we should get a drink another time, she stopped and thought. I said something like "come on" (not that smooth) and she replied that she had a boyfriend.

    A week later I went into a restaurant and she turned out to be our server. I flirted with her some more and when she brought the check I said to her "So when are you taking me out to dinner." She said "I don't think that's the way it works." I didn't have much of a reply. But as she was walking away she said "but try me again next time."

    Point being, her boyfriend was all of a sudden none existent. Girls will always use the fact "they have a boyfriend" as a way to deflect you. To get over my AA, I've been walking straight up to girls and saying "hey, I don't usually do this but I thought you were cute and I wanted to see if you'd like to get dinner so we could get to know each other." Don't work so well, and nearly every girl I've asked has "had a boyfriend."

    Farkin forget it. She don't got no boyfriend. Act as if she never said it. And it is better to game in person if possible, but there's nothing wrong with using FB to make sure she is keeping you in mind.

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    monday before thanksgiving, I noticed her facebook said she got into the conservatory. we are both shooting for it. i fb'ed her "Congrats on conservatory!" mostly to congratulate her, though i was hoping to get a tanks or something & get some conversation going, but she didn't reply.

    she wasn't online when I sent it and she never replies (at least to me) on facebook. this was either the 3rd or 4th time i messaged her in the 3 months i knew her and the only response was when she told me her address for the party (with a emoticon) so idk if thats necessarily bad, though i regret the ! in part, because she once said (i think the same day she said she didn't want a soldier) she wanted date someone who wasn't above/below her acting career wise because she didn't want the jealousy and her being in conservatory now means she is above.

    for what its worth, i don't think she mentioned her seeing someone to put me off, it felt like she started to brag on him and immediately trailed off when she realized. she said "I'm KINDA seeing someone" not "I have a boyfriend" and as I understand, the latter is bad.
    It was also directly relevant. we were talking about the grades we teach and I said 5th, she said high school. she said: those are the 2 ages she loves and she can't teaching 7th & 8th because their bodies are changing so they are always angry, the guy she kinda seeing teaches 7th grade at this advanced school... trail off. "I agree, 5th is so innocent and high schoolers. etc"
    Didn't seem like away to perturb me.
    Last edited by andrewkrs27; 12-01-2013 at 10:09 AM. Reason: forgot to finish my point

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    I felt i should post this. Katelyn posted the following as her fbook status.

    The dude who wins my heart will be something special indeed. I hope he's out there tonight having disappointing dates and hating life too. We'll laugh about it when we meet.

    looks like she's back to posting about wanting a guy

    does that mean she ended things with the other guy she was KINDA seeing that was new or did she want to distract me after all? If its relevant, I did message her about a status so she knows I see them.

    btw, i used pandoras box and I think she's a connoisseur. an investor, denier, realist.
    Last edited by andrewkrs27; 12-01-2013 at 03:14 PM. Reason: added a question

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    Default Re: Im circling the friend zone. PLEASE HELP

    Last night she didn't need a ride because she was meeting some friends. We talked but she talked to everyone and I had a hard time claiming her attention sometimes, but when I got it she usually let me keep it.

    Next week is the last class so it's my last chance. I had a window to get her # but, well, forgot. I blew it.


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