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    Unhappy Fight with gf of 2 years

    I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 20 and I've been with her for over 2 years and things lately have started to become dull/boring. Sometimes when I ask if we should see each other today she would say 'I don't mind' etc and it got annoying as she always used to want to see me.

    Finally it got too much and I told her about it and we had quite a big argument how I'm pathetic and why would it bother me etc etc and put the phone down on me and she said night and I didn't reply. I was going to leave it as that for a few days with NC but in the morning she text me asking if I had her credit card so I replied.

    We had another argument later on today and she called me pathetic again and I just stopped texting and left it at that, then she finished work about 2 hours ago and she text me telling me she's finished work and I reply okay and so did she.

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    Now after every argument we always make little contact as possible, like morning - morning, finished - okay, night - night. So I was wondering if I should even reply to her blunt texts and just not respond? And after so long when do you think I should respond to her texts? Bearing in mind last time I didn't reply to her texts for a day she went crazy saying I crossed a line etc.

    We both love each other but it's getting to the point where we're arguing too much and it's getting ridiculous, thanks for reading.

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    Default Re: Fight with gf of 2 years

    Without knowing the texts, I can't give perfect advice. Rule of thumb is to ignore bad behavior. So, if she is texting you foul messages, any response is going to be reactive. Just ignore them. Eventually, she'll calm down and as long as you didn't say anything to fuel the fire, she will likely respond with an apology eventually.

    Sounds like you've already started doing that, which is great.

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    Default Re: Fight with gf of 2 years

    Quote Originally Posted by Dodevu View Post
    we had quite a big argument how I'm pathetic

    We had another argument later on today and she called me pathetic again
    It doesn't sound like this woman has any respect for you since she is continually calling you pathetic. I would definitely give her lots of space to work out her issues.

    If you are being pathetic, then fix that behavior, but do it for yourself, not for her. I would also consider moving on to find women that respects you for who you are and wants to grow with you, not tear you down.
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