Re: TheDuke Needs Help with an Ex
Originally Posted by TheDuke
I've seen you post a Lot of really Great things on this forum and I agree with others that you would not make this some needy attempt to try and win her back. I get that you want to do this as a sense of closure for the relationship and a healing process for you. You are not looking for any specific response from her.
I think this is a great idea, but I would take it one step further. I would not send it as a message to her. Instead, pick up the phone and actually call her and tell this to her directly. It will be much more edgy for you and will actually be more healing.
I did this with my Ex-wife a few years after we were divorced, when I was in a much better place. I expressed gratitude for her and what we had together. I owned up to the parts I felt like I needed to own up to. I never blamed her for anything or tried to make her feel bad. It was extremely healing for both of us.
My warning is that this will likely spark feelings of interest in her, whether you want to or not. That's not necessarily bad, just be aware that it's likely.
I'm very impressed with you're vulnerability in sharing this with the forum and give you props for doing so.
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