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    So I got the courage to ask a girl for her number that works at the gym I go to...I got her number at say 3 and I didn't text her till 8that night..my opener was "hello its o the cool guy you met at the gym...she responded with an "lol...hi how are you....I told her I was at in n out and that I was doing very well...she responded Later on with "dam that sounds good I just got home from work I showers and ate and I'm settling down now. From that message I could tell she was letting me know she was ready for us to talk the problem was I fell asleep..I didn't think too much of it I texted her in the morning saying "goodmornng I had to be up early what did you have to eat lastnight...well this was yesterday morning and she has not responded..I went to the gym and my plan was that if I saw her if say hi and I know she would make up a bs apology as to why she hadn't texted me and my response would have been "oh my days been really busy but I really want to get to know you so when were free well catch up..but she wasn't at the gym so now I don't know if I should text her again saying something dumb like "hi so I see your not a morning person"..but not sure help

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    Default Re: Text her back

    Don't text her again. She probly is busy or something along those lines since he wasn't at the gym either( use those small clues). Just wait until she texts you back, no rush.
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    Your right but I mean it took me awhile to man up and ask her for her number I am talking to other girls but I guess since I actually out in work with this one I had higher hopes so I think I should ask more girls for their numbers randomly that way I don't have a weakness anymore

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    Default Re: Text her back

    You can do that but it won't help you with the fact that you think you NEED this woman. Just live your life, she'll text back when she ls ready/ can text you back.
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    Default Re: Text her back

    Read up on how to be alpha. That should answer a few of your questions

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    Default Re: Text her back

    I like the first text, but it wen't downhill from there. She was into the conversation for sure, and it's not a big deal that you fell a sleep; The vibe from the night before was gone though. Next time that happens, I suggest starting a new topic.

    I don't think she's going to text you back, I mean let's be real, she's had time but didn't want to. Text her in a day or two and be the cool guy from the gym you said you were!
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    I agree the first text was cool even the second one was ok but the last message I sent her the next day killed it..so you suggest that I do text her again? And if so what do I say

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    Not sure if it matters but I forgot to mention how I got her number. So she works at the gym and I’ve seen her around but wasn’t too sure I wanted to ask her for her number but I was like whatever. So I put my phone on the new contact setting and I wait for her to finish a workout and go up to her (ive been reading about body language so I tried to go up to her with confidence and instead of acting shy I even leaned on one of the machines and was like “hey let me get your number” her response wasn’t no but it was “I have a boyfriend” now I usually would have just walked away after that response but instead I cracked a smile and said “who cares its just a number” she was like okay and she began writing her number on my phone. I tried small convo about our phones being the same and then she said they weren’t and then I asked her if there were any big differences she named on and I just smiled and after she was done as I was about to turn around I said thank you and walked away. Not sure if this also plays a role into the situation but overall I believe I did okay any tips or advice.

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    Default Re: Text her back

    It's a new day, say whatever you want, but keep it fun! The thread is different, the vibe is different, the situation is even different.

    For future reference, I suggest you don't thank a girl for her number. You put her on a plateau when you do that. Think of it this way, you're the prize!
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    Default Re: Text her back

    Very true so should I act like I didn’t even notice the fact that she did not respond? I plan on texting her again tonight if I do text her its been 2 days and your right she obviously isn’t sooo busy that she does not notice a text message for 2 days. Im considering re introducing myself but no that’s lame… another approach im considering is acting like ive been pretty busy like “hello there loser work has had me super busy any plans tonight”. What do you think can I work with it or can it make be better or just scrap the whole idea and start with a new one.


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