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Thread: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

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    Default You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    So Im trying to get this girl(more than just lay her but have a relationship with this individual). I see her once a week as she works in retail. This time I held off before initially asking for her number by third visit I felt I needed too, but here is where it takes a twist she recommended I give her my number so I gave it. Couple weeks no phone contact but we still talk and I never brought it up neither did she. We still talk I use kino lightly (deep conversations about relationships , soulmates etc ) and one day I met her I showed her this flyer and she went shoulder to shoulder with me (dont know if thats normal or attraction). Her life pretty much comprises school and work so she has very little free time. My question is am I being placated or I need to do something else to have her step forward .

    Thanks community

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    Default Re: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    Sounds like you are building a lot of comfort and or rapport which is good but too much of that without escalating lands you into friend zone isolate and escalate, a couple playful insta dates would be useful in one timeframe get three completely different mini dates in a row and keep them all fun.
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    Default Re: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    She likes you if she gave you her number. Did you ever check if she's available? I know, I used to make assumptions about how busy a girl was without checking in. If she likes you, she'll make time.

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    Cool Re: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    2 words: Draw Back, Do your own thing for awhile act like you've lost interest and she'll come around.

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    Default Re: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    I never give my number, ever. Why? Because then she wouldn't be waiting for me... like you're waiting for her. Isolating a hired gun is your best way to handle this. Assuming she works in a specialty store, get her opinion on a product then go from there. It's unfortunate that she hasn't texted you, but it could be because as of now, you're just a customer.

    Best advice I can give about retail HB's is to be patient; Stand out from the rest & make nice with the other employees. Gaming a hired gun is a lot easier if her coworkers like you, they'll actually treat you like a person too.


    Everyone at the Starbucks location close to my work knows me (some by name) because I've invested time. I have a quick conversation with them (most of the time irrelevant to work because who wants to talk about that while they're there), get my coffee, then I raise the volume of my voice a little, and tell them all to have a good day/night, then they all tell me the same! Why? Because I stand out from their clientele and to them I'm a person, not a customer.

    All that to say, there are a lot of hot barista's that work there as seasonal help, and guess what.. I'm introduced by their coworkers as the guy everyone likes. Boom, now she likes me too.


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    Default Re: You know Im using everything but no response from girl

    Thanks for all the advice I agree there needs to be 'instadates' and the employee customer relation needs to progress to a personal level. I feel the tension that is present I feel I will just let her know how I feel and would like to take her out.

    Its all or nothing lol .


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