Hey guys, I wonder if any of you have ever headed this issue: gaming and picking up girls, who you know and tried to pick up before entering the PUA world.
As for me, one of the main reason I started digging up PUA stuffs, because there were several case, when I liked a girl, the girl liked me, but just wasn't able to game it. Wasn't able to set up a date, build attraction, run a great text game, and even if I went on a date with a girl, it was just awful.
Now, of course I know how to text girls, what to do on dates, how to talk to them - but when it comes to girls from the past, I'm just freeze down and become lame again - or when not, I feel like the girl just doesn't care, whatever I try. Maybe because she get to know the old me, who wasn't able to build any comfort or attraction, wasn't able to pick her up.
There is this one case, that is the main reason I ask you for advice. I've known this girl for several year, we went to same high school, but she was one year younger, so we were in differenc class. Everybody knew we like each other, but you know, just nothing happened. After High school, we went to different colleges, different cities. We started talking a few month before, huge IOIs, great convos, she wanted to give me her number - but I just wasn't able to handle the situation. Wasn't able to move it forward, conversations began to become boring, most of my textes were "how are you?'s, 'what's up?"s and "I've though of you, good night"s. No wonder she just stoped talking to me and text me.
Is it possible to start over it with her? How would you guys game a girl who know your old, lame version befure PUA? Is it just me who have to struggle very hard not to act like an AFC when it comes to girls like this?