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    Default Need help to get call back

    Hey guys, I am doing very well at meeting lots of women and getting phone numbers, but I'm having a hard time getting girls to call me back.

    Any tips on how I can get women to call me back after I left a message?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Please god tell me your messages are short and interesting

    Any message over a min and a half nobody has time for that.

    Please add sample of message you leave it would help us to see what is going on
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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Absolutely what hometown said. Check your vocal tonality too. Do you have a smile when your talking? They're going to be able to tell, and its important you do. Quick, to the point, and if the situation calls for it, have something you were going to do anyway at said time, and invite her along.

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Quote Originally Posted by Sidy2012 View Post
    Hey guys, I am doing very well at meeting lots of women and getting phone numbers, but I'm having a hard time getting girls to call me back.

    Any tips on how I can get women to call me back after I left a message?

    Thanks
    Great post and topic! This can be really frustrating and confusing.
    I suggest that you Never leave a message for a woman. If you are in a situation that you feel that you need to call, then hang up when her message starts playing and Immediately send her a text with your message. She will definitely read the message and then decide if she wants to respond.

    In general I strongly suggest texting girls to make plans to meetup. There are times that a call is necessary, but it should never be your first option for contacting her. Others on this forum may disagree and I would love to hear their feedback.

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Quote Originally Posted by TomInVegas View Post
    Great post and topic! This can be really frustrating and confusing.
    I suggest that you Never leave a message for a woman. If you are in a situation that you feel that you need to call, then hang up when her message starts playing and Immediately send her a text with your message. She will definitely read the message and then decide if she wants to respond.

    In general I strongly suggest texting girls to make plans to meetup. There are times that a call is necessary, but it should never be your first option for contacting her. Others on this forum may disagree and I would love to hear their feedback.

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    Agree 100%.

    I would never even think of leaving a message, that's definitely ballsy!

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Yeah bro, can't even think of last time I've listened to a voicemail. There's a 50/50 chance she hasn't even stored your number depending how you asked for it. Send a text. Only time I call is when we're texting back and forth and the call will speed things up or clarify something. I've gotten pretty good with text game to set up a meet up. Hit me up if you need help.
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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Call me old school, but I would much prefer the phone call. Even if it does result in a voice mail. If your voice mail is done well enough, it should serve just as well, if not better than a text. And if you get a return call, you have a much greater compliance than that of a text. Your position to slay would just have increased ten fold. If you don't think you'd get a return, as most girls are just too passive to do so, leave a light and fun voice mail (as you would with a text) and tell her you'll try her again soon. Do so, and if still nothing, freeze, and then proceed with a text. Chances are, if you've established enough rapport to get a meet up with a text, you should be able to get her on the phone.

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Communicational medium is not the big issue, all are here for but one use, to arrange a meeting. The best and only way to make ground is in person. Just use all other communications to expedite that meeting. Only a good short to the point message with good mechanics will make that happen. It needs to have something that makes her want to respond. Using it to set up is still only what I suggest, you cannot f-close over Facebook, text or phone so why use it to make ground.

    Conclusion make a brief and interesting message that merits a response. To set up face to face time.
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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    Never ever leave voice mail.= Not best.she can decide whether to reply or not which leaves you in static mode.you want to be engaging her.check times you call too.

    If you try to reach a few times and its not pulling through the more you call the more you come off.Check content and don't be half as about game if you had a not strong convo then four days should suffice.skip to the next met that day.
    remember game should be dynamic.have at least 3 - 4 number to hog off, if learning..etc

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    Default Re: Need help to get call back

    I think there are some great replies here. I agree that voicemail messages are often a poor idea if you do not know the girl well.
    - She might not even listen to them.
    - It is easy to sound weird talking to an answerphone which won't sound good.
    - It is too easy for her to "leave it for later", and then forget.
    - If she is a bit shy, she may struggle with initiating a return call. Texting or answering the phone are easier options for the shy girl.

    So I agree with what has been said above - If you do decide to call rather than text, and it goes to answerphone, just hang up. I would add that at that point maybe text, because you might seem to be a stalker if you leave seven missed calls on her phone!

    Other than that, consider your initial interaction. Not only was it good but was she left with a strong impression of who you are? If she can't justify to her friends why she likes you based on your personality, then she won't be able to justify it to herself. Even if she had a great time with you, you massively increase the chances of her keeping in contact if you remember this and act accordingly during the first meeting. You need to convey your personality.

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