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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Well, she just replied like a half-hour ago, and said:

    "I am doing well. How are you?"

    What's a good way to respond to that while also inviting her out someplace fun (although thinking of inviting her out in the 3rd message)? Do you think it's a good idea to ask her if she wants to bring a friend so she feels more comfortable? Is it also good if I have a couple of friends with me as well? Or is it just best to make it 1 on 1 with me and her if possible?
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    One on one is ideal I believe.

    Doing well have job at (insert information) say something you like about the job even if you don't love your job. Mention something fun you have done within the last two weeks exaggerate the fun part if needed. Do not ask any questions but write the fun thing in w way that warrants response and leaves interest going into detail is needed just to add to the pull and give you material if asked details in person. Keep it short and neutral with the exception of leaving your fun thing be a cliffhanger or attention getter. That way it demonstrates you have a job positive attitude and a fun social /personal life thus demonstrating high value. Then with response from that invite with said line.

    Or go for glory and invite out with said line.

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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    I see, how about a line like this?

    "I'm doing well, thanks for asking. Still at City tech attempting to finish my Bachelor's, and recently saw Gravity in 3D with a couple buddies of mine. Also celebrated my B-Day yesterday, and yes, it’s on Veterans Day :P”

    Planning to send her a message tomorrow in the afternoon sometime, don't want to respond right away.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    It works it is simple which is nice and leaves it rather open to send the rather strong invite upon her response.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    I just sent it about an hour ago, and she looked at the message about 20 minutes ago (didn't reply to it, yet anyway), which is interesting considering it took her almost a day to see and reply to my very 1st message.

    What do you recommend in the event that she ends up not replying to the message? Send a follow up message like a simple "How about you?", or "How about you? Any crazy adventures recently?"
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    Well, went ahead with the "How about you? Any crazy adventures recently?" line. Usually hate double texting/messaging, but I had a feeling she wasn't gonna reply. Not getting the best vibe from this right now.
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    Well, I'd leave it at that for a bit. Time will answer you now. Messaging is tough it is best described like an itch, you scratch it it feels good for a bit then comes back worse in half an hour, so toy want to catch again but that is what causes an itch to become an open sore or cut. Then that inevitably becomes infected and sends the wrong message.
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    She replied with "Oh happy belated birthday! Hope you enjoyed your day."

    How to reply to that? She didn't even answer my question of what she was currently doing recently. When I mean the vibe is off, this is what I mean lol.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    For example, here's a convo I had with another HB 7-7.5 earlier today in the afternoon on FB (after she liked my current picture and said I looked good). She's a friend I've known for about 3 years who I would have taken to the next level with (likewise with her I'm sure), but she currently lives and works in Cancun, Mexico..and me in NY .

    Me: Hey, Padme! How are you? I haven't talked to you in god knows how long. How have things been? Anything new?

    Her: Hey Eric!! Yeeah its been a long time and yees a lotta new things in my life, how about urs?

    Me: I'm doing well, thanks for asking. Still at college gradually finishing my Bachelor's degree, and recently saw Gravity in 3D with a couple buddies of mine. Also celebrated my B-Day yesterday

    Me: You?

    Her: That's great to hear! well happy late birthday I hope you had an amazing day with all your beloved ones
    how was the movie by the way? I wanted to watch it but im not sure yet
    and well me, I moved away, I left my hometown and moved to Cancún a year ago, I was offered a job in here so I took it and Im happy, it was very hard in the beginning but now it's gotten better
    come visit me sometime

    Me: Maybe down the line, I will

    Her: yeah, its a nice place to vacation (:
    I loooove the beach, its paradise!

    Me: Love with 4 o's, I can see how much you do love it :P

    Her: hahahahaha
    there are some pictures I uploaded, it's gorgeous
    I think thats what I love the most about this place
    besides there's a lotta foreign people everywhere so it's nice you get to meet different people

    Me: That's what I really love about New York and the school I go to now. A lot of diversity with people

    Her: Yes, it's very nice.

    Me: And by the way, come visit me in New York one day

    Her: aww I'd love to
    I need my visa first hehehe
    and honestly I'm not planning visiting the US soon
    at least not in the next 3 years

    Me:

    Her: I'm going to Europe
    but you can come on spring break it's easier for you! hehehe

    Me: As for the movie, it's pretty good.
    Good space thriller film.

    Her: Then I need to watch it.

    Me: If I say a movie should be watched, then go watch it!

    Her: Yessss, I will go today then

    Me: I'd go with you if I lived anywhere in your vicinity :P
    Which also means it's so good, I'd watch it again

    Her: hahahaha

    Her: :P

    Me: Ttyl, just entered law class

    Her: oki

    Do you see the difference in this chick's convo? Heck, just the first reply she wrote was way better, and makes you want to re-engage with confidence.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    I would wait it out a day at least see what she does without active responses and also keep the Facebook activity down. Appear busy for a bit. Then respond randomly after all you are a man who has his own things to do you will respond when you get a chance.
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