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    Default Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    I've known this HB 7 since the spring semester of 2009 (we both had accounting class). I requested her on Facebook May of 09, and we've been friends since then. We never have really spoken much (even when we had class together). Since that semester ended, I only saw her one time when I was hanging out with a couple of my friends and talked very briefly (She had to go right away, but told me that I'll see you later with some eye contact for a bit, but I looked away a few moments later lol). Took that as one sign, but at that time I wasn't looking for a relationship. Another minor sign (although she was maybe trying to be polite, who knows?) perhaps was when she accepted my request on FB, she posted "hey thanxs 4 the request...how u doing?" But once again, wasn't interested back then lol, but I always did think she was cute.

    We actually graduated at the same time in 2010. I saw her at graduation and we hugged each other and spoke briefly about our experiences here at that college and what not, but then we both went our separate ways. We actually then transferred to the same senior college, but I never knew until this past May when she graduated from there for good (I basically forgot about her since our graduation in 2010). I then told her congrats and that's the school I go to now, what was your major? She said finance, and what was mine? Told her CIS, and asked her if she was going for Masters. She never replied, but figured it had nothing to do with me since I had the last comment on that status. This was at the end of May, so about 5 months ago.

    She's single from her relationship status, so I'll assume she is (though she doesn't seem to be going on FB much nowadays, but whatever). Now basically, how do I re-connect with her? Need a good message to send to her. I've never gamed on FB, nor really held conversations with women on there, so I'm kinda weak in that aspect, which is why I'm asking the experts on here . I only need help till I'm able to get her number, and then I can most likely handle it from there.

    Thanks in advance!
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Invite her somewhere fun

    State it don't ask

    I am going said place at said time and day mention it will be a good time. Then ask if she would like to join you. Get the number in person
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    "Whats shakin chica? Haven't talked to ya in a while. I'm sure your tearin up the finance industry (financial industry? ) Lets grab a drink and catch up. 333-444-5555. Can't wait to hear from ya "

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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Invite her somewhere fun

    State it don't ask

    I am going said place at said time and day mention it will be a good time. Then ask if she would like to join you. Get the number in person
    I agree with you, but that direct right away?

    I figure it would be better to make small talk to get re-acquainted so to speak, make her engrossed into the conversation, then eventually invite her out someplace fun.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    That's what they expect so don't make small talk get to the point what do you want. Not many guys have the confidence nor the courage to do that without small talk.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    That's what they expect so don't make small talk get to the point what do you want. Not many guys have the confidence nor the courage to do that without small talk.
    In your opinion, do you think something like this would suffice as the opening message?

    "Hi, Steph! How have things been in the finance world (:P)? I just realized I hadn't talked to you in god knows how long, and wanted to drop you a message and see how you were. Was hoping to catch up sometime assuming our schedules correlate. Hope things are well!"

    It's implying that I want to catch up with her, aka invite her someplace fun, but also trying to respect her schedule that she may have. Let me know if I should tinker anything around.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Bringing up finance and wanting to catch up she may think you are talking business and or just being friendly. That is why the chatter is a rope turning into a noose. Point being sets up the express train to the friend zone. However, haven't see her in a while is ok to bring up. In most instances re establishing contact less is more. Set up a meeting and use that time for all the chatter email, Facebook, text and phone call are all limited and impersonal.

    Additionally, time, date,and place don't matter if they conflict and she is interested you will get a response and then you may negotiate a different time, however,actually show up as planned to original place in case she goes just to see if you actually where going to said place. You never know who they know and it is one heck of a sh*t test
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Bringing up finance and wanting to catch up she may think you are talking business and or just being friendly. That is why the chatter is a rope turning into a noose. Point being sets up the express train to the friend zone. However, haven't see her in a while is ok to bring up. In most instances re establishing contact less is more. Set up a meeting and use that time for all the chatter email, Facebook, text and phone call are all limited and impersonal.

    Additionally, time, date,and place don't matter if they conflict and she is interested you will get a response and then you may negotiate a different time, however,actually show up as planned to original place in case she goes just to see if you actually where going to said place. You never know who they know and it is one heck of a sh*t test
    Makes sense, how about this?

    "Hi, Steph! How are you? I was thinking about you the other day, and realized I hadn't talked, nor seen you in god knows how long. Wanted to drop you a message and see how you were. How have things been? Anything new post-graduation? :P"

    Then after she hopefully replies, I'll end up inviting her out someplace fun in my 2nd message, 3rd message at the very most.
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    "Hi, Steph! How are you? I was thinking about you the other day, and realized I hadn't talked, nor seen you in god knows how long. Wanted to drop you a message and see how you were. How have things been? Anything new post-graduation? :P"

    Try this edit of the same

    "Hi, Steph! How are you? I haven't talked, nor seen you in god knows how long. Wanted to drop you a message and see how you are doing.

    It is short easy to read conveys the point you are making which is re engaging conversation. It also leaves no hidden agendas no mixed signals leaves nothing to jump to conclusions about and leaves material for you to talk about later in person.

    It is clean, conveys the issue, isn't needy or intrusive, and follows my text and Facebook rules of less is more
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    Default Re: Need help with this person, but only have her Facebook account

    Alright, just sent that out. Thanks!

    I'll keep this thread updated and see how it goes. She seems to be very inactive on FB nowadays, so who knows when she'll reply back (if at all). I'll know at the very least if she's read the message cause FB tells you that.
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