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Thread: Getting shot down with style.

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    Cool Getting shot down with style.

    Not sure if this is already a thread but oh well. So as everyone knows rejection and getting shot down are all a part of the game. Even in those situations I like to spice things up to keep my spirits high and have even more fun in the process. It has even in one or two rare occasions won the girl over and I get a 2nd chance to try and number close.

    Some things I like to do are yell after them that I love them and that I can't live without them. I also like to sing Mike Posner's song Please Don't Go when they start walking away, or Bye Bye Bye from the Backstreet Boys. Although beyond that I haven't really thought of anything as funny or creative so that if I'm going down then at least I do so in style and have fun doing it.

    I'd like to hear what some of you do so that I can change things up for myself and have even more fun while out sarging.

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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    What you speak of is well a challenge. This is true I have gone down with style many a time. Girl told me "no" for her number. Ejected and re-opened she tells me she is a "lesbo" then I ejected and gave a sad panda face across the dancefloor and it was on. I thought I was totally done for them she came over and grabbed me since I had partially given up the sad face was my last ditch attempt and it worked wonders on Dana an HB8. Then there was Hayden who was another HB8 and after several interactions of ejecting and re-opening she pushed me away yelling (around her friends) then she walked away isolated and I moped and threw out my chest and whined to her. She fell into my arms and told me to take her upstairs and got some kino action.

    The ejecting and re-opening works great for rejections when you go Alpha. Funny how whining and moping in an attractive way (Alpha) not an unattractive needy way. It was so much validation I couldn't handle it and pushed them away when I should have capitalized on it further but again I was going soft with Alpha Male clutch moments that sky rocketed my confidence before taking another dip due to over compensating once I got the validation. So basically going down with style takes acquired skill and is not required as there are many women out there who will not makes things so difficult. Still if your heart is set and the mood is right this is called "flipping the script" on them after they reject you and getting them to change their minds. I have done this in a number of ways.

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    *Ejecting and Re-opening (sometimes up to 4 times to get them to come around)

    Girls have pushed me away hard sometimes and I just come back "Oh I'm sorry about that" and it doesn't even phase them and they are impressed by it and then they give me another chance which shocks the hell out of me since they just rejected me now bantering with me, accepting me I don't know what to do and lose the targets often times (I think I need to be a better closer).

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    *Push-Pull (being an A-hole then a Nice Guy)

    Told a girl that's a bad answer and yelled at her when she rejected me for one of two choices "number or leave" Interestingly later she tried to leave with me and also gave me her number when I simply was an A-hole and yelled and she was like "I'M sorry!" and walked away. Then I walked by and totally Nice Guy said "have fun" this drove her nuts she followed me to the bathroom, waited by the stairs where I number closed her on the 3rd attempt finally and then she waited by the door for me like the stairs but I approached the bartender I was working on and lost the Target.

    Holy Grails(Chicks who hold it and won't give you an inch of validation and walk away, ignore you, get on a cellphone, etc)
    *No defined method yet as I have always backed down from a showdown like this but working on my Inner Game to get better and get a field tested method to handle this method of rejection as well.

    Those are just a few ways I deal with rejection but yes the best way is to "own up to it" as you can see the most validation I have ever gotten in a Club was not a K-close or an N-close but a girl waiting by the door for me to approach that was following me around earlier and gave me her number after playing super hard to get. If I could just learn to "own it" and whatever it is that is the challenge my friends. Whether it is rejection suicide or success suicide I need to stop letting success kill my game (validation goes to my head and I don't try to take it one step farther) or rejection killing my game (I don't expect them to flip and they do flip back to liking me which stiffles me). I need to stop letting success or rejection affect me so much and just own up so this is apart of my blueprint for progress next year and the way to gauge my progress.
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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    Thanks I will definitely need to try some of those out. Truth be told I was thinking more along the lines of Daygame where I won't see the girl again, but thanks for the advice when it comes to night game.

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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    Quote Originally Posted by Eskimo View Post
    Not sure if this is already a thread but oh well. So as everyone knows rejection and getting shot down are all a part of the game. Even in those situations I like to spice things up to keep my spirits high and have even more fun in the process. It has even in one or two rare occasions won the girl over and I get a 2nd chance to try and number close.

    Some things I like to do are yell after them that I love them and that I can't live without them. I also like to sing Mike Posner's song Please Don't Go when they start walking away, or Bye Bye Bye from the Backstreet Boys. Although beyond that I haven't really thought of anything as funny or creative so that if I'm going down then at least I do so in style and have fun doing it.

    I'd like to hear what some of you do so that I can change things up for myself and have even more fun while out sarging.
    Amazing enthusiasm! I honestly don't have an answer for this because I just keep pushing until things work. I'd say, try to get turned down 3 times before you actually agree it might be time to throw in the towel. I just keep smiling and come up with another reason we should hang out.

    Great job!

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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    I really like that you're having fun while gaming. That is essential to keeping it as a regular part of your lifestyle. I don't have any funny suggestions, but I like the idea of staying in set as long as you possibly can.
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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    Yeah that is something I have thought about, staying in as long as possible. It is something I will have to work on because I do find I throw in the towel a little earlier than I like. Thanks for the advice guys!

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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    If you are new and trying to build confidence, then keep it up and have fun with that kind of thing.

    I'll tell you though... it isn't that hard to go to bed with a girl who initially rejected you. First, don't react too much to the rejection. Be indifferent and maybe a little amused that she thinks she has more social power than you.
    Other than that just stick with your game and keep at it until she straight up asks you to go away. All the normal elements of game apply; push/pull, flirting, teasing, etc.

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    Default Re: Getting shot down with style.

    Great Idea eskimo!
    I never tried it but I think if the girl started to walk away from me. I would try to figure out where she's headed and get there first and be walking in front of her.

    Then I'd look back and say "Stop following me. Leave me alone"
    or "OMG! Amanda?? How long has it been? It's finally good to see you! *Then a big hug*)

    I haven't tried any of this yet. But I will as soon as I get the chance.


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