Re: Getting shot down with style.
What you speak of is well a challenge. This is true I have gone down with style many a time. Girl told me "no" for her number. Ejected and re-opened she tells me she is a "lesbo" then I ejected and gave a sad panda face across the dancefloor and it was on. I thought I was totally done for them she came over and grabbed me since I had partially given up the sad face was my last ditch attempt and it worked wonders on Dana an HB8. Then there was Hayden who was another HB8 and after several interactions of ejecting and re-opening she pushed me away yelling (around her friends) then she walked away isolated and I moped and threw out my chest and whined to her. She fell into my arms and told me to take her upstairs and got some kino action.
The ejecting and re-opening works great for rejections when you go Alpha. Funny how whining and moping in an attractive way (Alpha) not an unattractive needy way. It was so much validation I couldn't handle it and pushed them away when I should have capitalized on it further but again I was going soft with Alpha Male clutch moments that sky rocketed my confidence before taking another dip due to over compensating once I got the validation. So basically going down with style takes acquired skill and is not required as there are many women out there who will not makes things so difficult. Still if your heart is set and the mood is right this is called "flipping the script" on them after they reject you and getting them to change their minds. I have done this in a number of ways.
*Ejecting and Re-opening (sometimes up to 4 times to get them to come around)
Girls have pushed me away hard sometimes and I just come back "Oh I'm sorry about that" and it doesn't even phase them and they are impressed by it and then they give me another chance which shocks the hell out of me since they just rejected me now bantering with me, accepting me I don't know what to do and lose the targets often times (I think I need to be a better closer).
*Push-Pull (being an A-hole then a Nice Guy)
Told a girl that's a bad answer and yelled at her when she rejected me for one of two choices "number or leave" Interestingly later she tried to leave with me and also gave me her number when I simply was an A-hole and yelled and she was like "I'M sorry!" and walked away. Then I walked by and totally Nice Guy said "have fun" this drove her nuts she followed me to the bathroom, waited by the stairs where I number closed her on the 3rd attempt finally and then she waited by the door for me like the stairs but I approached the bartender I was working on and lost the Target.
Holy Grails(Chicks who hold it and won't give you an inch of validation and walk away, ignore you, get on a cellphone, etc)
*No defined method yet as I have always backed down from a showdown like this but working on my Inner Game to get better and get a field tested method to handle this method of rejection as well.
Those are just a few ways I deal with rejection but yes the best way is to "own up to it" as you can see the most validation I have ever gotten in a Club was not a K-close or an N-close but a girl waiting by the door for me to approach that was following me around earlier and gave me her number after playing super hard to get. If I could just learn to "own it" and whatever it is that is the challenge my friends. Whether it is rejection suicide or success suicide I need to stop letting success kill my game (validation goes to my head and I don't try to take it one step farther) or rejection killing my game (I don't expect them to flip and they do flip back to liking me which stiffles me). I need to stop letting success or rejection affect me so much and just own up so this is apart of my blueprint for progress next year and the way to gauge my progress.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.