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Thread: cat and fish game with girl

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    ok ill try to be somewhat quick about this. ive gotten to the point where i can look anyone including girls strait in the eye while they are talking or i am (it has helped a lot). there is this one girl that when we talk we both look at each others eyes and just laugh and smile like it is no ones business. i feel a connection there every time. im still not sure if she likes me or is just flirting just to flirt. here are some other things she does
    1. takes about an hour every freaking time i text her to text me back. it annoying but i realize she waits about the same time every time. we text up to 15 to 30 minutes than she stops of course. i do already know that she likes seeing how far she can push guys and thinks it is funny.
    2. she laughs at every stupid thing i say. plus she always finds me and helps me with whatever i need doing. signs i know that she might like me.
    3. she asks me about big life decisions. she asked me if she should move to hawaii. than a week later said she might move to california next semester. to both of them i said of course you should go. well she ended up deciding to stay here next semester (yay!)

    so idk it seems like she likes me but im not 100 percent certain. any tips to help it move along better? also this has been going on for the past 2 months.
    im on a different level

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    oh also she never text me first. but she does always reply
    im on a different level

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    my question is how do i tell if she is really into me or just flirting just to flirt?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: cat and fish game with girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    oh also she never text me first. but she does always reply
    Have you gone on a date with her? Sounds like with all the texting without escalation, you could move to the friendzone despite whether or not she is interested in you.

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    no we havent went on a date. we do not text to much i might text her once a week mostly less than that. im trying to get her to make the first move
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: cat and fish game with girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    no we havent went on a date. we do not text to much i might text her once a week mostly less than that. im trying to get her to make the first move
    Great post and it's impressive that you have built such a strong connection with her. From your description it sounds like she has given you every sign that she really likes you.

    The most disconcerting part of your post is that you are waiting for her to make the first move. This is NOT her job, it is yours as the Man to Always make the first move. She has been waiting patiently for you to do this, but I'm not sure how much longer she will wait. I would highly recommend meeting up with her to an obvious date situation, such as grabbing drinks together. Make the first move and you will be rewarded.

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    tominvegas is right. You are always in charge. Don't wait for her to make the first move. It will likely never happen. If you need any advice on actually texting and wording things right, hit me up. Happy to help
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    Yea i know it is my job to make the first move. but come on its really attractive when a girl does it! You are most likely right i should just invite her for drinks or something. only concern is she told me and other people that have asked that she does not take guys to serious any more. her last boyfriend kinda screwed her up in that department. that is another reason ive been taking it slow.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: cat and fish game with girl

    Dude .... MAKE THE FIRST MOVE ALREADY ..... ask her out for coffee and then you can work your way up to lunch, drinks, and dinner ..... Good Luck !!!!


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