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    Unhappy Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Met a girl on at a club, she was with 2 friends. Danced with her for a bit but one of her friends was feeling sick and she had to go. Got her number, she told me to text her.

    Called her the next day and set up coffee for the coming Monday. She cancelled, but agreed to drinks friday. Told me to add her of facebook, which I did.

    Went bar hopping with her downtown on friday, had a great time. Shot the shit with some drunk people. She was holding it back at first but got into it later and opened up. Kissed a bit, nothing too serious. Walked her home.

    I texted the day after with something like had a good time...no answer. Sent her an FB message regarding an inside joke I told her id get back to her on. Still no response.

    What went wrong? What can I do to fix this?

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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Party girls are hard to get any traction with, they have the attention span of a ferret on meth. I. This instance you are an amusement to her without any thing much more beyond that. Not saying it is impossible but I think you will get better results with another target.

    But that is only the surface of the concerns I'd need more detail to completely figure out when it all went wrong.
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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    She's not really a party girl, doesn't go out clubbing too much, more of a 420 and chill with friends girl. It was halloween.

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    Went to a bar, had a few drinks, place was boring, ditched and went to another bar. Played the I can read palms game for some kino. Music was loud, used that as an excuse to get closer, whisper in her ear, more kino.

    Started some "ask me a question" type of game. Used this to neg her about her hair colour not being natural.

    Hit up a dive up, place was small and perfect to get closer. Danced with strangers, danced with her. Got closer to talk to her, kissed.

    We were both tipsy, grabbed some pizza, walked her home. Tried kissing again but this time, she wouldnt have it. I dropped it.

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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Being that the places wherent very lively that does nagatively impact the situation quite a bit. However that still leaves a lot of things that may have impacted this situation.
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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Ok, so remember I said she asked me to add her on Facebook? Well I played it cool by changing my profile pic to one I look really good in from the night we went out. Also replied to some posts by friends in an energetic tome, just to build up some social proof. I think that gave her some queues, cuz not even half an hour later, she responded to my fb mssg!! She said she had a good time and responded to my joke

    Should I wait till tomorrow to respond? Play hard to get? I was thinking of taking her to a concert on nov 20th, but don't wanna look needy.

    By the way, I love this site already!

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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    You are onto something about giving time before a response. Definitely before you respond give it at least until tomorrow and do something fun and post about it on Facebook. Completely unrelated to said interactions. Social proof is looking to be a little bit of a stepping stone and if you are busy doing other things and having fun that is increasing your social value dramatically.

    When you decide to see if she wants to go on the 20th please don't ask.

    I assume you would go anyway so

    Tell her I a going to concert on the twentieth to see whatever band sounds like lots of fun would you like to join me? (Note add time and location and other pertaining info of the event omitted because undisclosed)

    Don't ask if she is available and if she says no just let is slide as if it doesn't even phase you.
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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Don't really have something fun to post about right now as I'm not going out today, so any suggestions as to what I can post? Perhaps a pic of doing something fun at home? Or is that too lame. She posted a pic of herself all dolled up ready to go out somewhere.

    Oh, I definitely won't be asking, I'll be telling. Calling obviously, not texting or Facebook.

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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Even if you are at home doing the darn laundry make it sound like an adventure but if you are at home be busy at home doing something. Even if it is chatting with the old lady down the street, helping a neighbor rake leaves whatever anything can be exciting if you write it that way. Make doing the dishes sound like an epic foam party!
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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Thought I'd check in. Ended up going to see a movie and posted that on Facebook, totally ignored her message. Will respond to it tomorrow. Should I wait till the 20th to take her out or earlier? Thing is, we both really like that band, so it seems pretty fitting.

    So far I've only been doing nighttime dates. What would you suggest for daytime? Coffee etc. just seems boring.

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    Default Re: Help me out, did I screw this up?

    Responded to her, but she didn't reply. Seems like this girl's running game on me lol.

    What's the best plan of action here? Text her with something funny/random and eventually ask her if she wants to go to the concert? Or FB message her? She responds VERY slowly to both, even though she's on her phone all day.

    Or just call her and set it up? Should I use the, I was gonna go to a show with a friend (I'll hint it's a girl), but she flaked...so you're up.


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