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    Default Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    It's true what they say that you can meet girls almost anywhere...I've personally met three recently that are all hot and all DTF. Some of you may be asking "WHERE?!" The answers in order are school, working at Dunkin' Donuts and walking down the street. This is the story of the latter...

    So, I was walking back from DD on the way to my house because it's right around the corner and it was nice out. I had an iced coffee in one hand and a bag with a couple donuts in the other. I was dressed in standard South Florida wear (black beanie, old high school gym tee with sleeVes cut off, basketball shorts, Jordan slides) but nothing fancy besides my $200 Guess watch I always wear. I was about to turn the corner to my house when these two cute girls come almost running up to me. The cuter one says to me "Hey mister, I don't mean to be a bother but do you think we could possibly borrow a lighter?" I look them up and down, trying to measure them because I've been trying to make stoner friends in my area. I tell her yes, wait there while I go get it and then think better of it and ask if she's trying to spark a j. She asks if I'm a cop and I tell her no but I can match if they're interested. Then I tell her to wait and go get it. I come back out to hand it to her and ask if they want to come inside and smoke with me. They vehemently agree to come in. I make their acquiantance and introduce myself and we head out back to smoke. The house I'm renting is nice with a patio, 10 foot fence, etc and I live alone. I do everything I can to make them comfortable, get chairs and then when I offer wine, the cuter girl gladly accepts. It turns out the other one is her cousin and doesn't speak much English so that's why she doesn't talk much. Me and the cute one have a pretty decent conversation until we're too farked up for that. I ask if they wanna come inside and Natalie (the cute one) tells me they're actually going to get a move on. And then she turns on the eyes (you all know what I mean) and says to me "You seem really cool, I wish I had a phone so I could get your number..." I stare at her like the idiot I am and then she says "Do you have a phone?" I quickly rush to get my cell out of my pants pocket and go to the contacts app. She puts in her name, number and the name of the community we live in (for my benefit so I know which Natalie she is in my phone, I suppose). Then they get up to leave and I walk them to the front door. The cousin walks straight out but as Natalie is leaving, she turns around in the doorway and reaches out so I give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek then close the door. I text later to ask what she's doing and tell her my plans for the night just got canceled. I don't like her answer so I wait a few hours, tell her I made other plans but she should call me if they get back early and we can hang out again. She says she'll let me know and I don't hear from her again. My question is if I wanna keep her around as a FWB type deal and see her again, what's the best way to approach this? My text game is pretty tight but for somene who's practically a next dooor neighbor, would that be strange and not aggressive enough? Usually, I meet girls, text them every other day and be funny/charming/whatever and then when they ask when are we gonna finally meet/hang out (for online girls), I tell them to come over that weekend and we fark. Any advice on this guys?

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    It's true what they say that you can meet girls almost anywhere...I've personally met three recently that are all hot and all DTF. Some of you may be asking "WHERE?!" The answers in order are school, working at Dunkin' Donuts and walking down the street. This is the story of the latter...

    So, I was walking back from DD on the way to my house because it's right around the corner and it was nice out. I had an iced coffee in one hand and a bag with a couple donuts in the other. I was dressed in standard South Florida wear (black beanie, old high school gym tee with sleeVes cut off, basketball shorts, Jordan slides) but nothing fancy besides my $200 Guess watch I always wear. I was about to turn the corner to my house when these two cute girls come almost running up to me. The cuter one says to me "Hey mister, I don't mean to be a bother but do you think we could possibly borrow a lighter?" I look them up and down, trying to measure them because I've been trying to make stoner friends in my area. I tell her yes, wait there while I go get it and then think better of it and ask if she's trying to spark a j. She asks if I'm a cop and I tell her no but I can match if they're interested. Then I tell her to wait and go get it. I come back out to hand it to her and ask if they want to come inside and smoke with me. They vehemently agree to come in. I make their acquiantance and introduce myself and we head out back to smoke. The house I'm renting is nice with a patio, 10 foot fence, etc and I live alone. I do everything I can to make them comfortable, get chairs and then when I offer wine, the cuter girl gladly accepts. It turns out the other one is her cousin and doesn't speak much English so that's why she doesn't talk much. Me and the cute one have a pretty decent conversation until we're too farked up for that. I ask if they wanna come inside and Natalie (the cute one) tells me they're actually going to get a move on. And then she turns on the eyes (you all know what I mean) and says to me "You seem really cool, I wish I had a phone so I could get your number..." I stare at her like the idiot I am and then she says "Do you have a phone?" I quickly rush to get my cell out of my pants pocket and go to the contacts app. She puts in her name, number and the name of the community we live in (for my benefit so I know which Natalie she is in my phone, I suppose). Then they get up to leave and I walk them to the front door. The cousin walks straight out but as Natalie is leaving, she turns around in the doorway and reaches out so I give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek then close the door. I text later to ask what she's doing and tell her my plans for the night just got canceled. I don't like her answer so I wait a few hours, tell her I made other plans but she should call me if they get back early and we can hang out again. She says she'll let me know and I don't hear from her again. My question is if I wanna keep her around as a FWB type deal and see her again, what's the best way to approach this? My text game is pretty tight but for somene who's practically a next dooor neighbor, would that be strange and not aggressive enough? Usually, I meet girls, text them every other day and be funny/charming/whatever and then when they ask when are we gonna finally meet/hang out (for online girls), I tell them to come over that weekend and we fark. Any advice on this guys?
    The best way is to see her and sleep with her and then set the relationship as FWB afterwards. Could you have gone into her place with her, rather than leaving by just kissing her on the cheek?

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Yeah, I figured that much for myself but what I'd like to know is how to get from the number to the f close.

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Build some comfort, escalate sexually/ flirtatious and then invite over. It's easier said than done though, so if you really want to f-close you may have to be very patient and don't come off like you just want to fark and not get to know her( I make that's mistake a lot.
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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Build some comfort, escalate sexually/ flirtatious and then invite over. It's easier said than done though, so if you really want to f-close you may have to be very patient and don't come off like you just want to fark and not get to know her( I make that's mistake a lot.
    Completely agree. May have to go to a Day 2 place first that isn't your place, like a bar or restaurant (don't order dinner). Then, have a reason to go to your place (Let's do shots, Let me show you my family photos, Let me show you something on the computer) then escalate. Best to kiss her on the lips before you get to the sex location. Yes, lots of comfort before that.

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Great job building lots of attraction!! It sounds like you need the right logistics and more comfort to make it happen. Good Luck!

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    The best way is to see her and sleep with her and then set the relationship as FWB afterwards. Could you have gone into her place with her, rather than leaving by just kissing her on the cheek?
    Sorry to not really answer your question before but I only had a couple minutes to check this post. The issue is that the house is owned by a relative (the one I'm renting) and they know all the neighbors. The more people who see me with this girl (especially if we're intoxicated), the more likely there'll be a problem for me. Also, she's like 19 and lives with her parents. Even if it were the case that they weren't home, because the house I'm in is owned by a relative, me being high with her and being caught by her parents would be a bad look.

    UPDATE: I did text her Monday and we talked a little. She either has ADD (and consequently is a bad texter) or she was busy (Vets Day, she was with her cousins). I sent her a picture of a voodoo necklace I had just bought and I did notice the visual seemed to hook her in briefly. I'll text her tomorrow (when she probably has class and will be bored) and see if it's any better. Like I said, texxxting is sort of my specialty so hopefully I can break down her wall a little so we can get this show on the road ASAP. I really just want her as a distraction because my main girl is getting on my nerves, but I guess that's why most of us keep a few in rotation and a couple on the backburner hahahaha. I do wanna get her over here for another chill sesh soon, maybe after she comes back from partying so she'll have to spend the night. Thanks for all the help guys! Urbancowboy out!

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Alright guys, I'm going to try to make this update as brief as possible. So I texted her Wednesday morning "Good morning ". Some people might think this is unncessary but I like to text a girl every couple days to keep the emotion building and constantly have a pulse on the situation. She never replied to this. Then I called her around 7, no answer so I texted her "You trying to burn around 10 or so?" She said she was. I texted her around 10:30 under the pretense of "I'm late and just getting there" to make sure she was still coming. Again, no reply and she also ignored my call half an hour later. I figured she was on stoner time and went back to my life. I never saw them but I had two texts this morning, before eight from her. One was apologizing about last night because she ended up in the studio later than she thought (she's a singer) and the second was asking if I wanted to wake and bake. What woke me up was her dcall at 8 AM. Shes said she didn't recognize the nunmber and was just calling me back to see who the number was, which is plausible. Or she may have been calling because she really wanted to wake and bake with me, but I'm betting on the former. We talk for a few minutes, I ask where she was, she apologizes again and says she didn't mean to wake me and she'll be by in a few minutes. She texts me to come outside so we can go get a few supplies and I get in her car. She looks cute, long sleeve shirt and short shorts. She reaches over immediately to kiss me on the cheek and I return the favor. The conversation was a little slow but not bad. She mentions that she liked my other look better. Anyway, we get back to my house, go out back and smoke. She gets a call from her Dad, which takes like 25 minutes and pisses me off to no end but what can ya do? She sits back down, we keep going and I'm doing my best to keep up a conversation but it's hard when you're that intoxicated. She ended up staying a little while longer but I couldn't escalate. I offered a few times to get booze and about her coming in, but it's a weekday so we both had shit to do after this. I swear I could feel her hold on a second too long when she gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye but it could have just been my imagination.

    Take-aways:

    *I need to plan for next time this happens. Going into this with some vague notion of escalation will not get the job done.

    *This is our second time hanging out, this time without her friend. Even though she's a stoner (which for everyone here who never has been, slightly changes the rules), I think she must understand that you don't go over to a guy's house, alone, early in the morning like that, if you don't have some type of intentions.

    *Should I text her to say I had a good time or is that too needy? This is usually a move I use a lot to let know girls nothing has changed between but typically it's for AFTER I sleep with them. In most cases though, I meet girls online and sleep with them on the first date with no neutral site meet-up.

    *I believe that after hanging out two times and getting high, we've established a casual relationship where both of us feel comfortable calling each other and I'm 90% certain she'll be calling me to do this again and I'll see more of her.

    Guys, as always, any feedback is appreciated. I'll see if I can remember any more relevant details but I think I basically covered it. Urbancowboy out!
    Last edited by urbancowboy; 11-14-2013 at 07:29 PM. Reason: Forgot something...

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    Alright guys, I'm going to try to make this update as brief as possible. So I texted her Wednesday morning "Good morning ". Some people might think this is unncessary but I like to text a girl every couple days to keep the emotion building and constantly have a pulse on the situation. She never replied to this. Then I called her around 7, no answer so I texted her "You trying to burn around 10 or so?" She said she was. I texted her around 10:30 under the pretense of "I'm late and just getting there" to make sure she was still coming. Again, no reply and she also ignored my call half an hour later. I figured she was on stoner time and went back to my life. I never saw them but I had two texts this morning, before eight from her. One was apologizing about last night because she ended up in the studio later than she thought (she's a singer) and the second was asking if I wanted to wake and bake. What woke me up was her dcall at 8 AM. Shes said she didn't recognize the nunmber and was just calling me back to see who the number was, which is plausible. Or she may have been calling because she really wanted to wake and bake with me, but I'm betting on the former. We talk for a few minutes, I ask where she was, she apologizes again and says she didn't mean to wake me and she'll be by in a few minutes. She texts me to come outside so we can go get a few supplies and I get in her car. She looks cute, long sleeve shirt and short shorts. She reaches over immediately to kiss me on the cheek and I return the favor. The conversation was a little slow but not bad. She mentions that she liked my other look better. Anyway, we get back to my house, go out back and smoke. She gets a call from her Dad, which takes like 25 minutes and pisses me off to no end but what can ya do? She sits back down, we keep going and I'm doing my best to keep up a conversation but it's hard when you're that intoxicated. She ended up staying a little while longer but I couldn't escalate. I offered a few times to get booze and about her coming in, but it's a weekday so we both had shit to do after this. I swear I could feel her hold on a second too long when she gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye but it could have just been my imagination.

    Take-aways:

    *I need to plan for next time this happens. Going into this with some vague notion of escalation will not get the job done.

    *This is our second time hanging out, this time without her friend. Even though she's a stoner (which for everyone here who never has been, slightly changes the rules), I think she must understand that you don't go over to a guy's house, alone, early in the morning like that, if you don't have some type of intentions.

    *Should I text her to say I had a good time or is that too needy? This is usually a move I use a lot to let know girls nothing has changed between but typically it's for AFTER I sleep with them. In most cases though, I meet girls online and sleep with them on the first date with no neutral site meet-up.

    *I believe that after hanging out two times and getting high, we've established a casual relationship where both of us feel comfortable calling each other and I'm 90% certain she'll be calling me to do this again and I'll see more of her.

    Guys, as always, any feedback is appreciated. I'll see if I can remember any more relevant details but I think I basically covered it. Urbancowboy out!
    I agree, you definitely need a plan. Definitly don't text her and tell her you had a good time. Very needy. I'd wait till next time you wanna kik it with her before you text again.

    Okay so back in my stoner days, I used to get a lot of girls similar to your situation. If it were me here's what I'd do: Next time you wanna see her wait till that day and take a pic of your weed and be like "just picked up OG Kush (or whatever the kind u picked up is). Come blazee" or something along those lines. She'll likely be down.

    When she comes over take a few bong rips then when conversation starts to get dry put on a movie. If she's not sitting next to you on the couch/bed light up the bong again and tell her to come here to pass it. After that just start cuddling with her with the movie in the background. Then just escalate physically. I find stoner chicks get waaaay sluttier when they're smoking so that shouldn't be a problem.

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    Default Re: Need Help With Girl I Met Walking Down The Street

    OK,just wanted to give a little update real quick without starting a nww thread. I texted her the day before Thanksgiving ("What's up?"), got no reply and then texted her "Happy Thanksgiving boo!! " so that it looks like it could be a form text to all the girls in my phonebook, or not. Either way, it got her attention, she replied and after some niceties, we ageed to burn when I got back on Sunday. Fast forward to Sundy afternoon, she texted wanting to know if I was around because she was "walking by my house" and wanted to burn. I was still driving down from Orlando and told her I'd text when I got into town. It took 3 hours. When I called her, it wasn't real businesslike like it usually is. She seemed like she wanted to talk (supposedly she was "in a good mood"). I had pussy on my mind though so I cut it short to tell her to call her dealer. We called each other beack and forth a few times, alternating calling dealers we knew and still coming up dry. We eventually decided to just get high together tomorrow night instead, since she gets out of the studio at 10 and we'll have more time to find weed beforehand. Guys, any advice? Also, does it sound to anyone else like I might have turned a corner with her since she seemed to want to talk on the phone more?


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