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    so ive been thinking why donít I sarge as much and the answer to my question is because I donít know where to sarge to. I feel like the mall some girls are too young or with parents or siblings and ive never heard of that type of pick up. Bars are cool but I donít really have a wing man or friends who have the money to go with and Im not sure if I want to go to the bar or club on my own I really donít have many friends let alone female friends. So any ideas out there?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bi11ydakid13 View Post
    so ive been thinking why donít I sarge as much and the answer to my question is because I donít know where to sarge to. I feel like the mall some girls are too young or with parents or siblings and ive never heard of that type of pick up. Bars are cool but I donít really have a wing man or friends who have the money to go with and Im not sure if I want to go to the bar or club on my own I really donít have many friends let alone female friends. So any ideas out there?
    Hey Billy - I like the fact that you have a desire to go out and meet women. The truth is that you don't need a special place or situation to meet and talk to women. You can do it whenever you leave the house. You will see people on the street, in a park, at the store. Be friendly to everyone and improve upon your general social skills. If you do this, then many more opportunities to meet the women you want will happen. Good Luck!

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    What I did when I first got into sarging (i.e., going out with the INTENT of picking up women) is I went out by myself and started meeting guys at bars. Go "pick up" some wings!

    Also, you don't need wings, but it is nice to have people to sarge with.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    TheDuke makes a great point. You can go out alone.. It will help your game tremendously. Practice talking to guys too, make friends. Anything that tests your social dynamics will help you in the long run, when it comes to talking to, and picking up women.

    Give online game a shot. Online game, once you get good at it, will become text and phone game. It all translates and it's all good practice. There's lots of juicy material in the forums to get you started.

    Good luck bro.

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    Okay @tominvegas that is very true and when I go out I do try to flirt with any girl that I come into contact with well let me rephrase that every girl I have to come into contact with such as registers or at the bank I just don’t have a good line to just go up to random people and get to talk to them so I need an opener. @theduke maybe just an excuse but every time I meet new guys they are cowards like they are afraid to approach women and that negative energy gets into met im already scared to approach and when others are afraid it becomes more difficult because then they will start watching you. But then again if I have the mentality of an alpha who cares right??@twenty-nine by online game do you mean online dating? Ive tried that theres an app named meet me that I did but girls are pretty shallow and my online game isn’t super good and my pictures kinda sucked but I didn get a few girls but it gets old and its not like im getting the girls I want I think I would rather approach or do you any other sites where I may have luck ?

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    Yes online dating. It can definitely get old and seem like a waste of time when it isn't working. I've been using POF and having some good success with it. Your profile is very important and that includes your pics. There is some great stuff online regarding how to make the online thing work, and how to put together a solid profile. Knowing how to message girls is also obviously critical.

    It's not for everyone however, and that's fine. You have lots of options at your disposal.

    As far as opening.. Sometimes it's more about HOW you say things and how you act than WHAT you say. It's definitely easier with a good wing man or a group of friends. It's all practice.. Keep in mind; Great successes are made up of many small mistakes. Accept bombing dude, if you can be okay with the thought of a girl rejecting you (a lot of the time it's her own sh1t, and not even you anyways) than you won't be nearly as scared to approach. Think of it this way; If you approach 10 chicks, you are quite likely to at least get a date or a K-Close - depending on the situation - with one of them. Keep at it!

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    thats true ive tried it but to no avail i dont really know what a cool picture of me would be like a scenario and i feel like i want to learn to approach before i give all my attention to online dating but your right its all about doing and practicing and not giving up

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    No, please don't give all your attention to online game. What I'm saying is it is good practice on the side, when you don't want to go out but still want to practice and maybe get some new contacts. I've gotten 6 numbers in 2 months of just messing around and trying different sh1t.

    Anyways good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bi11ydakid13 View Post
    Okay @tominvegas that is very true and when I go out I do try to flirt with any girl that I come into contact with well let me rephrase that every girl I have to come into contact with such as registers or at the bank I just donít have a good line to just go up to random people and get to talk to them so I need an opener. @theduke maybe just an excuse but every time I meet new guys they are cowards like they are afraid to approach women and that negative energy gets into met im already scared to approach and when others are afraid it becomes more difficult because then they will start watching you. But then again if I have the mentality of an alpha who cares right??@twenty-nine by online game do you mean online dating? Ive tried that theres an app named meet me that I did but girls are pretty shallow and my online game isnít super good and my pictures kinda sucked but I didn get a few girls but it gets old and its not like im getting the girls I want I think I would rather approach or do you any other sites where I may have luck ?
    Hey Billy,

    It's awesome that you are applying yourself to getting better. That always impresses me the most about guys, their drive and desire to succeed. The easiest in the moment opener that you can do is to compliment something that she is wearing or her hair. The "trick" is to actually really be appreciative of the thing that you're complementing. If her necklace is really Awesome, then tell her that. If you really think she has sick style, the say so.

    This is very different from telling her that she is pretty. That's what most guys would say. When you complement something that she has spent time choosing or working on, then you are complimenting her effort and good taste. Try that out for a week. Some will bomb for various reasons, but some will go really well.

    TheDuke and TwentyNine have a really good suggestion in meeting wings in the bar. Don't befriend just any guys, make friends with the guys that are already successful with women. The guys that are already talking to girls are the ones you want to meet. Open them with a complementary opener as well and see how it goes.

    Cheers!

    Tom


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