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    Default Knowing When To Back-Off A Bit

    peace peace guys,

    okay here the story i meet a chick recently that lives about 30 miles from my area...she has a bf. However we have maintain a good relationship thus far how can i further establish my friendship with her without coming off a needy or overwhelm?

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    Default Re: Knowing When To Back-Off A Bit

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAbbot View Post
    peace peace guys,

    okay here the story i meet a chick recently that lives about 30 miles from my area...she has a bf. However we have maintain a good relationship thus far how can i further establish my friendship with her without coming off a needy or overwhelm?
    What's your goal with her? Just to be friends or something more?

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    Default Re: Knowing When To Back-Off A Bit

    well friends for right now. we real compatible though

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    Default Re: Knowing When To Back-Off A Bit

    Hi Abbot,

    How did you meet her and what do you mean when you say you've maintained a good relationship with her? ..Texting? Talking on the phone? Have you and her been meeting in person?

    Also, as Tom asked, what is your goal with her?

    30 miles away and has a bf.. Sounds a bit tricky. Is it worth your time and effort?

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    Default Re: Knowing When To Back-Off A Bit

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    30 miles away and has a bf.. Sounds a bit tricky. Is it worth your time and effort?
    +1

    Plenty of fish in the sea (unless you live in a remote area?) Why pick a target with unnecessary obstacles to get past? If she breaks up with the boyfriend it might be a different matter...


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