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    Default Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Whenever I drink and get a buzz (not even fully drunk) I can never get hard. I have a beautiful naked girl in front of me begging me to fark her...but I am half hard. It sucks! Any solutions other than the obvious (stop drinking as much when i'm gonna get laid)?

    Another issue, even when I'm 100% sober, it takes me a reaaaaaallly long time finish. Like I'm going for over an hour, sometimes longer until the girl is sore and she finished 5 times and cant fark any longer. The last 4/5 times i got laid (when sober) i ended up farking her for a while then finishing myself. I even stopped masturbating all together (i get laid maybe twice a week, usually different girls every time). Advice?

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    Default Re: Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    You are not involved on a deep enough level,it is just sex for the sake of sex. That is why you cannot keep it up. It is psychological she is hot enough but isn't engaging you spiritually or emotionally enough.

    It is likely harder to get or keep hard if they game easy but if you had to work for one of them for a while I bet you would have less problems just a guess.

    Not being rude just my opinionated observations and hypothesis
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    Default Re: Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Lol its funny you posted this but lets cut the chase shall we..one thing you have to do is to ask your doctor about this problem because i never been in this kinda scenario before but I think a medical professional will be more likely to help you with this man
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    Default Re: Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    However vere makes good point too consulting your physician to be sure it isn't a health problem is a good idea too it is prostate cancer awareness month or men's health month that is in the United States
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    Default Re: Whiskey d1ck - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    You are not involved on a deep enough level,it is just sex for the sake of sex. That is why you cannot keep it up. It is psychological she is hot enough but isn't engaging you spiritually or emotionally enough.

    It is likely harder to get or keep hard if they game easy but if you had to work for one of them for a while I bet you would have less problems just a guess.

    Not being rude just my opinionated observations and hypothesis
    Quote Originally Posted by Vere View Post
    Lol its funny you posted this but lets cut the chase shall we..one thing you have to do is to ask your doctor about this problem because i never been in this kinda scenario before but I think a medical professional will be more likely to help you with this man

    Idk man it could be that. But even with girls I am emotionally attached to and have been with for a while I have the problem. But I've always had this problem. When I drink, I can get rock hard maybe 20% of the time. When I'm sober, I've never had a problem getting hard, just had a problem finishing. I think because of this a doctor wouldn't sympathize at all and just say if I plan to get lucky don't drink as much, plus i dont have health insurance...

    but the thing is most girls I'm with are with me cuz they're drinking and they want to drink with me. If we didn't drink, I don't think as many girls would come home with me, at least not as easily. Its like alcohol helps me get laid but it also prevents me from getting laid. Catch farking 22

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    Default Re: Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Your doctor is supposed to be professional about this stuff sympathize or not serious medical conditions that are not diagnosed or misdiagnosed cause damage. Aside from that damage they cause lawsuits so I think it would benefit them to be more professional and less judgmental.
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    Default Re: Whiskey d1ck - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    That is true. Either way it's not really a possibility for me right now due to no insurance. Plus I wouldn't want to take viagra if he prescribed it and become dependent on it to get it up. I've heard its more of a psychological thing to be dependent on viagra but I don't want to risk it either way, especially when I have no problem when sober.

    I'm thinking I'll just take it easy on the drinking for now, maybe just make my drinks very weak and the girls stronger lol. But would still love to hear how others are dealing with it. The girl I was with last night told me she blacked out (we drank the same amount, and I have very high tolerance so I was just buzzed), and didn't even remember if we fucked or not. Then when we woke up we had some more fun in the morning so that made up for my inability to get fully hard the night before.

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    Default Re: Whiskey d1ck - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Quote Originally Posted by johnny_perez420 View Post
    Whenever I drink and get a buzz (not even fully drunk) I can never get hard. I have a beautiful naked girl in front of me begging me to fark her...but I am half hard. It sucks! Any solutions other than the obvious (stop drinking as much when i'm gonna get laid)?

    Another issue, even when I'm 100% sober, it takes me a reaaaaaallly long time finish. Like I'm going for over an hour, sometimes longer until the girl is sore and she finished 5 times and cant fark any longer. The last 4/5 times i got laid (when sober) i ended up farking her for a while then finishing myself. I even stopped masturbating all together (i get laid maybe twice a week, usually different girls every time). Advice?
    Do Kegels, my dude. Shit will help you immensely. I can furnish you with links if you need it but reddit is a good place to start.
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    Default Re: Whiskey Dick - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    I need to start by asking how attracted you are to these girls you are bedding. HB5-7 or HB8-10? This is an important factor.

    It's normal for alcohol to effect your ability to get an erection, it affects most men to a certain degree, and it's different for everyone. It is a possibility that it's just the way you are; that you can't get hard when you've been drinking. You say you can when you are sober so this is what I'm leaning towards.

    Let's talk about your issue with finishing. Again every guy is different in this area as well. Me personally, I never finish when I'm with a girl for the first few times, unless she is extremely hot and does all the things I like right off the bat.

    My issue is that I need a certain emotional attachment and sexual chemistry to get there, and that often my nerves affect things and I just simply don't get off, because I know I probably won't based on past experiences. I try not to think about it too much as it's not a huge issue for me, I actually don't have a problem with it. I'd rather it be this way than be the guy who blows his load 2 minutes after getting naked.

    It's also possible that part of the problem now is that you are psyching yourself out because you are sub-consciously telling yourself you are going to have this problem when you are with a woman.

    Take everything into account. You could consider talking to a sex therapist if that's an option for you.

    ***All that said, it is never a bad idea to get checked out by a doctor, that's the best advice you've received on this thread.

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    Default Re: Whiskey d1ck - Can't Get Hard When Drinking

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    I need to start by asking how attracted you are to these girls you are bedding. HB5-7 or HB8-10? This is an important factor.

    It's normal for alcohol to effect your ability to get an erection, it affects most men to a certain degree, and it's different for everyone. It is a possibility that it's just the way you are; that you can't get hard when you've been drinking. You say you can when you are sober so this is what I'm leaning towards.

    Let's talk about your issue with finishing. Again every guy is different in this area as well. Me personally, I never finish when I'm with a girl for the first few times, unless she is extremely hot and does all the things I like right off the bat.

    My issue is that I need a certain emotional attachment and sexual chemistry to get there, and that often my nerves affect things and I just simply don't get off, because I know I probably won't based on past experiences. I try not to think about it too much as it's not a huge issue for me, I actually don't have a problem with it. I'd rather it be this way than be the guy who blows his load 2 minutes after getting naked.

    It's also possible that part of the problem now is that you are psyching yourself out because you are sub-consciously telling yourself you are going to have this problem when you are with a woman.

    Take everything into account. You could consider talking to a sex therapist if that's an option for you.

    ***All that said, it is never a bad idea to get checked out by a doctor, that's the best advice you've received on this thread.
    I'm pretty picky about the girls I'm with - I'm never with a girl I don't find sexually attractive. Other than the occasional butter face (pretty rare), they're all 8s and above, usually 9s.

    It may be psychological, I'm so accustomed to lasting forever that I psych myself out and can't cum. But man I hate that. Don't get me wrong is rather last a long time than blow my load in 2 mins as well. But enough is enough. When you get to the point of pounding her hard with her begging me to cum all over her, and you can't, that just sucks. It's so tiring too - Pounding for over an hour. At this point I usually finish with my hand and jizz all over the girl.

    One of my ex gfs used to get so upset about that. She got satisfaction when I came but when she couldn't do it and I had to intervene and do it myself...she felt like I wasn't into her at all - definitely not the case.

    Lucky for me I'm still young (22 years old) and both me and the girls can endure going for 1-2 hours at a time but I just fear for my future when I'm older and can't physically do that.

    Position makes a big diff as well - missionary and doggy style work best for me. Girl on top - terrible lol if I can't control the speed I'm going in and out of her then I'd never finish.

    Thanks for the reply, it's helpful to hear what someone else in a similar situation has to say.


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