I'm not doing well anymore in the dating game. A few years ago i had 36 great experiences with 36 different women. Something happened.
I validated what ever needed validating and kinda lost interest in dating. I stopped. Then a year or two later, when i wanted to start dating again i didn't get results. All the learned thought patterns were gone, the check points i'd learned to work toward weren't charted in my mind anymore.
Things have just gone dead.
This year i didn't put any stock in finding ladies but used POF. I had a financially challenging year due to some legal shit. I got past that in October. Taking a look back at the year all i really did was go take a class, and follow a strength training program. I worked on a few projects that can be some performing art projects and money making ventures in the future but in the dating department i wasn't in the position to date so i didn't.
With my legal shit behind me I'm ready to figure out how to think again. How to manage the negotiation process of co ed interaction. I can't for the life of me remember what got me results and what didn't. I really downloaded 550 gigs of learning material. Plus what i deleted or didn't back up. I recall some things working and some things didn't but not well enough where i can search for an author and make a folder of 5 or 10 of the necessities so i can get something going.
I'm a firm believer that using someones provided instructional i can deflect rejection better thinking i need more practice or i need more information to utilize. This tactic keeps me trying longer.
I think lance and adam were people i got the most use out of and will go see what products i have but any information you guys have about what you did or what you seen people you coach do might prove helpful.