I met her in the first week of college after finding out that we both have classes together every day. We texted a lot and she would send smileys like ))))))))))))) (super excessive), and we had a 2hour conversation on the phone one night while she was drinking at a party; she even called me back after we got disconnected. One night while I was at my brother's house and she was out partying, we were texting and I convinced her to hang out with me that night. We went to the beach, talked, and I got rejected twice for a kiss ([i think] because she has a boyfriend), but we both laughed it off and kept the conversation going.
After that night, things between us were very mutual and I could tell that the attraction dwindled over time. We've been friends for about 3 months now and we're really close. Today we talked for an hour about her wanting to break up with her boyfriend (long-distance relationship) because she met this guy here and slept over his house. Everything I heard about this guy from her seals the deal - she really wants him and is willing to break up with her boyfriend for him.
What sucks is that I'm seen more as a brother for her - and another girl we hang out with (Three's Company) - and she know's all about me and Game and I'm a player to her because I talk about women to them (which I thought was fine since they both had boyfriends-and they found it very interesting "chick crack"). By the way: I'm talking to this amazing girl who is also long-distance and fulfills everything that I'm looking for in a woman (except that she's not here).
"we can't have it all" I know, but I feel like this was horrible timing - for me - and great timing for the other guy. This girl doesn't know that I like her though, but I would have thought that she'd think about me more than anyone else if she was ever single again.
Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~