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    Default Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    Hey guys,
    So there's a girl that I've been on a few dates with (yet to k-close...i know, i know..). Last time I asked her to hangout she said she already had plans - it was late notice to be fair.
    I feel like I'm losing her a little based on text responses becoming shorter. Right now, to spark a conversation that was dying over text (I'm away for a little while) I left her with a cliffhanger. She asked "what happened??"...
    It's been a few hours, so my question is...how long should I leave it to respond? Should I respond? Do I answer her question? etc...

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    DUDE you must have engaged... if you not you might loose her.run game!

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    From what I know this girl's interest in you is fading..you can see IOD's from her side..things are drifting into damage mode or friendzone..hook up with her and run game to pump attraction and escalate accordingly
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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    I'm away for 7 days still....how should I play this message situation when considering that? Game?

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    Ok, so I tried to play it cocky/funny...ANDD she completely ignored it. I'm sh*t out of luck with this one I assume.
    I'll try one last thing when I get back - major play. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    My only idea was to invite her on a date - like a real one. super formal. let her know i intend to make a move.

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    Super formal will get you super frustrated.

    You have to engage in a way to increase energy and vibe. Additionally putting off that kiss close is shooting you in the chest on this one. If you want boring results be boring. But if you want to build attraction you need to bring some energy to the table. Any principal that involves attraction involves energy of some kind. Example magnetism, electricity, chemical reactions

    So how about you figure out a playful fu date, nail that kiss close and then you will feel much better. Don't show her you intend to do something. Just do something, announcing your intentions is very beta or archaic at best we are far out of the society of Victorian values
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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    Very interesting points, thank you.
    Do you have any specific ways I could do this? aka what kind of playful date, how to invite her etc...

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    When things got boring between me and someone, I would change my messages from texts to pictures. I'm assuming you're away somewhere interesting, so take a picture with you and something in the background that most women find interesting and can ask questions about. If you use Line, it's a great phone messenger that I use mostly for asian girls because they like using the stickers to express emotion. I had an entire day's conversation with a girl using only stickers and she later told her friend that she never had that before and it was fun.

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    Default Re: Losing her - cliffhanger action?

    my first message was a photo :/


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