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    Default Re: Dealing with a Flirt

    i was gonna start the conversation with the hebrew line and i was gonna say it like an old friend. does that mean yes then?

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    Default Re: Dealing with a Flirt

    Sure, do it if you want, but only if you feel like you can deliver it well. If your practicing it in any way, it might come off like that. And it will show you have been thinking about it for a while now. I honestly would go in without any expectation. Don't try to imagine what the class is going to be like, or how your going to feel tomorrow. Just go with the flow. Go to class and when you walk in, if you still like giving the line than do it. If you don't feel comfortable than don't do it. Simply trust yourself tomorrow when you go in there. I know its not specific in any way to directly help you. But you can't go in expecting something or expecting to do something, more times than not, you'll be disappointed. Forget about it and go with what you feel tomorrow when you go in.

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    when it comes down to it, i ultimately just trust my gut. she could be in a bad mood, she might not even show up. in general i think its bad to rely on lines because they sound cheesy or rehearsed if you find a window to land them. if you can't, then u spend the whole time trying and missing stuff.

    i don't see thees as pick up lines or like that. i haven't practiced, its just a greeting, with a nickname. hey movie star, hey rockstar, hey babe, only in hebrew.

    mostly what I'm asking is, is the greeting too far? it uses our religion but i feel like in a good way. i would use it right away (not eagerly, just first window i get) so, unless she starts talking to me before i could greet her, its as casual as saying hello but as intimate as, well idk, depends if she knows anyone that actually speaks hebrew i guess, its hard to describe the connection that would be there. idk how she grew up but based on how much pride she had i bet its similar to this...

    i grew up knowing very few other jewish people. almost all of whom through temple so thats where we hung out. i knew those people my whole life and no one dated each other, it was like a sibling. basically all my "prospects" had different beliefs so when u meet someone who you share beliefs with, its different. don't get me wrong, I'm not putting a ton of focus on her. all i know is she's weird, intriguing, pretty, and shares my religious beliefs (and I'm really not that religious so, for me, not a big deal, just adds extra intrigue and less explanation of holidays). I'm just trying to give a picture of what its like.

    the "reference sheet" is more of an inside joke but it has to, on some lvl, be prepared. i figure it triggers a lot of emotions: religious pride, humor, a little shame, and makes her think of the time she spent with me so she'll be excited to spend more. also other emotions but i typed a lot already.

    with that, so should i use the greeting? after should i use the inside joke?

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    Dude, you gotta snap out of it. I know its not easy when your caught up in it. The power of pussy is insane. But your way over thinking this. Just say the greeting and the line. Take it as practice. Say it to a few other people you know first, just to see how it sounds. Ultimately, those with the most decisive actions are often deemed victorious. So go ahead and do it, but do it without thinking about it. JUST DO IT!

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    Tonight was weird.

    When I got there there, late, there was a seat between fg and emt. She was sitting on the end, by some girls. If I had to guess she deliberately didn't take it. During break I came back and she was talking to fg, sitting in emt's chair. The one between, mine, was open. I think it interesting she left room between them so I just sat down. I told her I was learning Hebrew and I said the only phrase I know so far is "what's up" as I said it, she translated some on her own from her trip to Israel. We had to do 3 person improv scenes and I wasn't able to get up with her because emt beat me. He pitched a scene about a bar mitzvah and she had no reaction. Either she didn't notice or it didn't work. He tried making a joke about some stupid stuff he did last week but it didn't land.

    At the bar...

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    When we left she mentioned pool which I love and I challenged her. She said yes but there was no table. We r gonna try to go somewhere we can play next week. She sat at the booth, I sat at the stool next to her. A different "other girl" showed up and started to take her seat but she stopped her. Fg sat next to her, idk if b4 or after I picked my seat. Because of the stool I couldn't hear well when she talked to fg without leaning so I did. Because of the stool I was able to rest my leg against her knees the whole time. Most of the time she let me. She occasionally shifted and when fg moved once she slid a little but she came back. I had several "deep" one on one convo with her. I frequently touched her shoulder and asked deep questions. I was able to look her in the eyes for that and she was into it. We talked about what she remembers from last week. Turns out she was real drunk. She doesn't remember giving anyone her #, though she didn't seem to mind my having it. She didn't remember most of my teases but when I called her a prude, again, she was astonished so I told her what she said last time and she laughed a lot. At one point, when emt mistakenly thought everyone wanted leave, she said she'd rather take a cab and at one point someone mentioned moving to the bowing alley next door, which I assumed had a pool table, so when everyone decided they did want to leave I asked her u wanna play around a pool and split a cab (I mentioned splitting it when she said she'd take a cab instead of leaving cause I didn't want to leave either) but she said she was too tired or something. It didn't sound like the Canadians rejection, which came up, it was 1 am and everyone else was leaving or left. When emt dropped me off, she gave me this kinda goofy wave that reminded me of in a movie says I'll miss you. Does it mean that in real life?

    Oh and we are all going to see a classmate at her improv show tomorrow so I'll see her there.

    The new "other girl"...

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    The other girl was my least favorite in the class, by which I mean I'm least attracted to her

    She asked me and Hannah to take her #

    She hugged emt goodbye when she left, she touched me ALOT, even when she said bye to Hannah she had her hand on my shoulder. When she was saying bye, she stood behind me so I reached both arms back and pulled her into this reverse hug thing, and she squeezed back hard. Truth is it felt like she was waiting for it but I figured its social proof.

    I forgot to mention in the last box, I think, that Hannah was completely less flirty today. She was more like in class than the bar last week. That said, she still talked more to me, showed me pics on her phone from her acting gig yesterday, encouraged me to look for an agent again, told me a place that could help me find a full teaching job, like her, let me touch her whenever I tried (unfortunately the mood didn't allow like last week but anytime I found a window I put my hand on her shoulder, we all took a group pic together and I put my arm around her), we talked Israel, I asked some "deep" questions I got from "dating gurus" like bobby rio and she got into it, during I looked into her eyes and she typically glanced down or back. That said she still talked to fg (the engagement came up, he was taken aback but he recovered, said it was 3 yrs old and a heart break, then ranted about technologies hold on people as an excuse not to update it. On the bright side he mentioned he got his first phone at 18 and he said the year and I pointed out that I, and therefore her, were 2 when he was 18, demonstrating the age difference) and the aren't tried some sabotage, like comparing fg and me to her dad (because we were ready to protect her if Canada got more aggressive) but he was talking to other girl, who he spent most of the night hitting on, and she seemed impressed I would defend.

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    forgotten part 4: i also forgot that she and i had a sip of each others beer. she never had pumpkin beer, which i love and got, and i never had a duvel which she loved. i gave her some to try and she didn't like it. i told her i never had duvel and she insisted i take some.

    that said, she finished fg's beer and let him try duvel, though he asked, so idk if it still has the implied "desire" that the books say. i also gave her a compliance test and had her get me a water, which she accepted.

    when i suggested splitting a cab, she didn't seem to take to the idea. the first time i brought it up (half jokingly) and she kinda made a face (I'm not sure it was inherently bad, maybe uncomfortable, but that would be pushing it) and the second time, when trying get her to stay longer, she said no because it was late but it was 2hrs earlier than last week. the second time i didn't notice a distaste, per se, maybe a look of "not ready"? idk what it was.

    i musta recovered in the car because i brought up teaching again, which she has some passion for (she teaches preschool, I 5th grade) and I asked her for the site she had suggested earlier to find a full teaching job. we joked in the car and when i left she made this half frown that looked like she was trying force a smile, kinda cutesy longing eyes, and this half wave that reminded me of in the movies when the girl has to watch someone leave that she doesn't want to go. idk if its the same in real life.

    she also let me real close to her, for example, she took some pics on her phone of the view from her acting job that day and she wanted sow me the pics so i got real close shoulder to shoulder and leaned in this awkward from a foot and a half higher stool to the bench so i could see. i spent most of the time leaning so i could talk with her and fg and the position had my had against her leg a lot. near the ennd i felt like i was overdoing it but with that table i could only cross my arms across the table but she seemed to respond (maybe she thought she upset me?) she also didn't remember most of last week, remembers slapping me and emt, mistakenly remembers us deserving it, doesn't remember picking a fight or giving her #, when asked about dancing she responded "i never forget a good dance" in a half dreamy half tease-y tone

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    Default Re: Dealing with a Flirt

    Best thing you did in this set was try to fix logistics by offering to split a cab. Great suggestion.

    I have a lot of other feedback, but the only real feedback I can give is listen to what the people on the forums are suggesting.
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    Default Re: Dealing with a Flirt

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Dude, you gotta snap out of it. I know its not easy when your caught up in it. The power of pussy is insane. But your way over thinking this. Just say the greeting and the line. Take it as practice. Say it to a few other people you know first, just to see how it sounds. Ultimately, those with the most decisive actions are often deemed victorious. So go ahead and do it, but do it without thinking about it. JUST DO IT!
    Andrew,

    This is the BEST advice I have seen so far. Listen to what everyone on this forum is telling you. You are caught up in a tunnel vision world for these two girls now. Relax, meet other girls and just try to be the cool guy in your acting class.

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