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Thread: Help need advice on this situation

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    Default Help need advice on this situation

    Hey,

    I had a crush on a girl in class. Initially she liked me back, but when I finally came (didn't strike the iron when it was hot) around and asked her out, both times she said she allready had plans. This was before the summer break. I'm now dating another girl, but today I realised I still have strong feelings for the girl in class (when I saw her ex calling her). Me and her always sit together in class having fun, flirting etc. I can't really cope atm with the feelings I have for her and I don't wanna be a weak son of a bitch and tell her I don't want to sit next to her in class anymore because it drives me crazy and makes me wanna be with her instead of the girl I'm seeing now.
    How the hell do I deal with this. I can probably man up and accept this in a couple of hours but it would totally suck if this happens every time I see her again in class.

    How would you guys handle this situation???? I need some input!!!


    Ps: And I needed to vent this right at this moment.

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    Default Re: Help need advice on this situation

    If shes giving you lots of ioi's i'd say just TELL her you guys are going to hangout, dont ask, asking makes you look weak. tell her, try to bring up something you both have an interest in. anything is fine really, an art gallery, sports bar, club, whatever, just make sure its something you both are interested in and tell her your taking her to one.

    Ex:
    hey you wanna go to (insert place) today/tomorrow/etc.
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    Hey i know this great sushi bar/art gally/etc, i'll take you there today/etc (do it in a confident, casual way like your going either way and she should tag along. its much harder to say no to then if you had asked.)

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    Default Re: Help need advice on this situation

    There is your answer from ThtNikkaGP..Rep+ rep+
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    Default Re: Help need advice on this situation

    I agree you just have to assertively get her outside the classroom and deal with this in the proper time and place. It is the only way you will ever find comfort in the situation.

    Classrooms create a very close parallel reality for everyone within them. You are all there with similar goals so getting along with someone who is learning same materials is natural. Thusly, attraction to desirable individuals in that parallel reality starts to wear on you when there is no progress being made day in and out. By assertively recommending a place and time to go elsewhere from that parallel reality then you can make the ground and see what is really going on and take an edge off the felt stress of the situation.
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