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    Default Lost a personal thing to a friend?

    Guys, this is perhaps not directly a question about game but I could need some help from the people here.


    How would you handle a situation in which you've lost something personal to a good friend? See, I promised this girl to absolutely not lose this personal thing(concrete object) since I needed it for one day but..what are the odds? I can't seem to find.


    We've been close for some time but she got a little bit upset and dissapointed at me a couple of weeks ago for holding info(not lying and actually not big deal), so the trust is now close to rock bottom. She is someone from class so it is definitely not a "forget and keep going"-kind of deal. How should I handle this?

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    Default Re: Lost a personal thing to a friend?

    Lay the cards on the table and try your damnedest to find it.

    Taking this one on the chin will sting but trying to deceive your way out will be two in the chest one in the head for that friendship.

    Explain, you cannot find..... You aren't going to give up until you figure it out. If you cannot figure it out you are going to whatever you have to do to make it right. Then once you explain it follow through. Life does this to us all the time but if you persist through the tough with your integrity intact you will find that even in failure you may triumph.
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    Default Re: Lost a personal thing to a friend?

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Lay the cards on the table and try your damnedest to find it.

    Taking this one on the chin will sting but trying to deceive your way out will be two in the chest one in the head for that friendship.

    Explain, you cannot find..... You aren't going to give up until you figure it out. If you cannot figure it out you are going to whatever you have to do to make it right. Then once you explain it follow through. Life does this to us all the time but if you persist through the tough with your integrity intact you will find that even in failure you may triumph.
    No, I will definitely not play it by the "hide under the rag" here. I will seriously really try to find it, but there are things that are just, out of your control, not matter how much you want it. Thanks for your input.


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