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    Default reply to flakes, teases and flirts

    so this has happened to me a few time, girl gets flirty and teases, or flakes after some sexual escalation

    ive never really figured on a good way to deal with it, i know that there are a few different threads concerning this but i just had a quick question about something i've always wanted to say in regards


    ive always wanted to just be like 'hit me up when u don't wanna play games anymore' or ' let me know when you decide to be serious' something with that general theme or message and then to just ignore them for awhile

    has anybody ever tried, this , or would anybody strongly oppose to saying it

    basically i don't want to be wasting my time and im just kind of informing them not to waste my time
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    Default Re: reply to flakes, teases and flirts

    It probably depends on how far along in the attraction stage you are. If you have her attraction, it might work in your favor. If she isn't attracted enough yet, you'll probably push her away.

    My buddy, who's a natural, will do something like this from time to time. I've even seen him call and leave a message telling her not to call him anymore because she's just wasting his time. A day or two later, he'll often get a call or a text from the girl. He usually has them attracted at this point, and sometimes it doesn't work out in his favor. This is where calibration is key. I'd say try it. If you don't care about losing her anyway, give it a shot and see what you get.

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    I was on the phone with a very flirty but flaky woman 2 days ago. I've had her number for like 3 or more months, but never hung out with her. This is only my second time talking on the phone with her. Anyway, we're playing 21 questions and we're at the last question before I get off the phone, and I tell her to end it with a bang. So she decides to end it with a shit test. She asked me why sometimes I'll text her for a period of time (a few days), and then disappear for awhile (a couple of weeks), and then start talking to her again.

    Kind of caught me off guard, but I say that I hate texting and prefer talking on the phone. Then I say I'm going to put it bluntly, and I tell her that I meet a lot of people, and talk to a lot of different women. I end my answer by saying that I'll try to hang out with someone 2-3 times, if it doesn't happen I just move on.

    Now I didn't direct it straight to her like your responses, but my statement clearly applied to her. It showed that I'm social, selective, alpha, and a man who doesn't waste his time. Ended up going on a date with her the next day (which was yesterday).

    My point is, it's a high risk/ high reward answer, or in your case, statement. It won't always work, but if it does it can pay off big. Abundance mentality my friend. Don't be afraid of sometimes just going with your gut. Try out your statements, but always keep talking to more women.

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    Default Re: reply to flakes, teases and flirts

    If you sexually escalate with a woman, but don't F-close, then she may feel slutty and have a lot of defenses come up. I avoid sexual escalation with a woman unless we are in a location where sex can take place. This keeps and builds the sexual tension, rather than releasing it by groping her in a club.
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    Default Re: reply to flakes, teases and flirts

    Ultimatums NEVER work. These teases actually get their rocks off by seeing you get frustrated. They'll act like it's not what they want, but they like the feeling of knowing they got to you and have an influence over them. It's very validating.
    I'm not sure how sexual escalation comes into this. If you showed too much interest by heavy groping or verbally telling them they are hot, they will 100% be flaky and feed their own validation.
    Fill me in on more of what's going on and I can give you a better answer.
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