Hey guys I've been practicing for several months now and have gotten a lot better as of recent. I've been reading and field testing a lot. This forum is awesome, thank you to all of you who post on this forum! <3
So while I was a super afc many months back and did know anything, I just happened to be at my neighbourhood gas station at around 3 am or so. Now this girl walked onto the premise just before I decided to go home and gave me a couple of iois as she made her way inside I was standing near the entrance on my phone, now I did not give one fark about this girl nor was I attracted to her in any way shape or form, she's an HB6. She came back out and gave me another ioi and to my surprise she opened me and we started to talk and she was doing a lot of investing and keeping the conversation going. So just for practice I used a relationship opinion opener and she instantly got hooked and started giving me more iois. So being in afc land I really did not know what to say after a while and a little bit of my afc spilt out and I started to talk about myself, however I did not give one fark about her, because I just met her and didn't find her attractive and just didn't care. Forced to contribute just a little to the conversation, I ended one of her sentences by telling her to join me at one these volunteer programs I was going to join. her face went from "hi stranger" to "super happy", loaded with smiles. Using that as an excuse and the time being so late, she number closed me. LOL!
Now at this point I didn't care very much for this girl and was a super afc so I txted her my number and that was it. the following few weeks however for some reason we kept randomly bumping into each other in random places around town and every single time we did we would just ditch everything and go out of our way to spend time together. I never really txted or called her she would always be the one doing it. At this point I still don't know much and my experience was low and I didn't play any game on this girl (or so I thought, till now that I realized I was somewhat unconsciously gaming her) wasn't anything amazing but seemed to work kind of . Basically I was unsure as fark about what was happening between us and I wasn't keeping up to par with my reading and fell behind a bit. So recently I just kind of wanted to shoot myself because I now realized that she gave me 3 to 4 cues to kiss her and I wussied out every farkin time. So I thought I was getting close to the friendzone because I knew I should have taken those natural moments where I could have and just not give a fark at all even if she disagreed I would have no regrets right now, reading about it just made me go into severe depression for days. Just thinking that I was in the friendzone was my biggest mistake, it completely destroyed me.
We hung out here and there if I didn't call her she would call n txt me every couple of weeks atleast once a month, and we would end up hanging out. Now the last few days that we hung out was where I super farked up. for 3 days straight she came to my house n we hung out n at this point I thought I was in the friendzone and put her on a pedestal like a fool, I started to agree with what she was saying, kissing her on the cheeks, being impressed by things she would say to dhv herself, became her therapist pretty much, ugh. But as I did that she opened up a lot more to me and honestly, all I have to say is just wow, her personality is just amazing, everything I want in a women, her looks didn't even matter to me.
However on the last day that we hung out which was first week of October I think I super farked up.
So as if it wasn't bad enough that I was putting her on a pedestal, we ended up walking to a nature reserve that took us 1hr 30mins, but it didn't matter as long as we were together. now on the walk there I was being an idiot and kissing her on the cheeks and she kept telling me to stop n that she was sick n didn't want to spread germs but I didn't care anyways like a fool. Then she said "ok fine, I think I just need to accept other peoples love, you can kiss n hug me." and so I did, just completely destroyed my frame there I realized that like 20 seconds too late ugh. And so once we got to the nature reserve there was a hot blond girl like HB8, her father and their 3 dogs. and so my girl started conversing with them and we all started to talk. I began to flirt a little bit with the blond girl and paid no attention to my other girl. So we we're all about to leave and they offered us a ride and she said it was all up to me, and I took the ride ( did not want to walk back 1 hr 30 mins again - should have though) Now the blond chick was hinting big time to hang out again. So I asked for her number n she said her phone broke, n she asked if I have fb or like email. I said yeah do you have your email, should have gone fb but didn't like a fool. She said that my girl already took her email, and I said I would get it off her, like the biggest idiot on earth. they drop us off and I ask her for her email and she completely denies me and says she has a boyfriend, which I don't recall hearing her saying. She tapped me on the ass with her walking stick thing she found while denying me and smiled. So I gave up pretty easily, stupid of me to put myself into that situation in the first place. I was being too nice. Now the thing is as she started to walk in her direction towards home I left and came back to tell her I needed to give her something, she said we`ll do it tomorrow. Now since that day I haven't txted her or called her since nor has she. I feel like I farked myself over by being so needy. I started to get kind of attached to her because she's sooo worth it. I know for a fact she played game on me as well. She used every trick in this book I read recently, and I just cant stop thinking about her, its driving me insane.
I am determined to create a solid game plan and blow her away.
Few things I have planned myself so far:
-I signed up for this volunteer program and I'm going to invite her to come help. its a Christian organization as well n she loves her religion. I've told her to come by with me so many times to different programs but I just never went through with it and I should have, its my responsibility to bring her into my world.
- I will not give a fark about anything she says nor will I be impressed by anything she says, stop agreeing with her opinion n take her off that pedestal , n make myself the prize.
- get her to chase me even more and use push n pull techniques.
- basically build sexual tension, as I've read on the forum "change her mood not her mind."
- I believe I will have to k - close her on our first encounter next time.
- talk about things she loves and is passion about and keep her super emotionally charged.
- DHV like crazy
I worked on my game tried to game other women HB7 - HB9, but I just don't care anymore, their looks mean nothing to me. I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. It might seem like oneitis, but I don't care she so worth it. Also She is 31 years old and I am 21 years old.
Sorry for the super long post, love you all!
I would really appreciate all the help I can get. Thanks guys