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    Default Opinions day!

    To make it brief, I know this HB8 from college (I graduated last summer so haven't seen her since then) that I number closed before and flaked on her for some reason that I can't remember. She is obviously into me, still? Maybe.

    Yesterday I texted her asking playfully if she's doing okay without me and ended up setting a "date" tomorrow, I said I'll text the time and place in the morning.

    I have two options, go ahead and tell me which one is best in your opinion:

    1) Invite her over directly: "My place at 7. Should I draw you a map?"
    2) Meet for a drink first bla bla bla and then move it to my place: "[bar name] at 7, if you were cool good maybe we'll do something fun"

    On a girl I recently closed I would know the answer directly but this one I know her so it's different. To be quite honest I'm leaning towards option 1, minimal effort hah.

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    Default Re: Opinions day!

    I would go with option one and see how it goes. If shes down just stick with it and calibrate.

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    Default Re: Opinions day!

    Option 2 is obviously the safe route. I don't think there is much to be gained here by going with option 1, unless you just don't care at all.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Opinions day!

    That's what I did Turk, and yeah option 2 was the safe route but just like you said Duke I don't care much so I went like this:

    me: Tonight at 7. Are you feeling adventurous?
    her: where we going?
    me: Come over for a drink and if you behave we'll do something fun. Should I draw you a map?
    her: start drawing!

    It is on boys! Opinions appreciated, off to make a retarded drawing.


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