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Thread: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

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    Default Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    Anyway, not sure to believe her.

    This was through text, bit of back of forth flirting, then I told her to come hang out.

    Full stop, she says when I get back from Europe it will. She was legit going to Europe the next day.

    I just ignored her, before she left she sent me a message telling me to have a lovely week.


    Full story is a couple of dates, couple of long talk on the phone. She seemed generally interested in doing whatever I was at. But started to flake, she broke and told me just out of a LTR and wanted to go slow.

    I basically ignored her. Then got a message out of the blue that she didn't think we were going to work.

    I told her to smarten up and get over the whole woe is me act. Couple days later she asked me to "wait for her". Whatver.....I said YES if she cut the crap.

    Then into the first part of the story.

    Until now I have yet to message her back, not sure if she is even home from Europe, don't fully care.

    So should I drop this girl or maybe send something like, "You wanna kiss me, show me"

    Or any other ideas??? Who the hell says they wanna kiss you anyway....seems kinda low, maybe just looking for attention. I am just at fault for biting on it a bit.

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    Default Re: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    Don't say that. It is reactive. Respond with "k." She wants validation. I've had a similar situation where a girl who showed me nothing while I was by her started blasting me with text messages saying how she wanted to fuck me. I started talking about how I wanted to fuck her then next time we saw each other,,, nothoiong!! Absolutely nothing! You have to not let her statement irk you either way.
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    Default Re: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    Don't say that. It is reactive. Respond with "k." She wants validation. I've had a similar situation where a girl who showed me nothing while I was by her started blasting me with text messages saying how she wanted to fark me. I started talking about how I wanted to fark her then next time we saw each other,,, nothoiong!! Absolutely nothing! You have to not let her statement irk you either way.
    Yeah I agree with you, on bit on that one, but as soon as I realized it I stopped texting, plus she was going away the next day. Problem is she sent me the, "You have a lovely week" text next. I realize she wants validation, just being out of a LTR.

    I guess any reference to what she said is a no-no. I just wanted to call her on the 'kiss bluff', but as you say, I am just following her lead. I was thinking just calling her a bluffer in general, cause I have a feeling this what killed her last LTR, something along the line of you talk the talk but you gotta walk the walk, obviously not in those words, but that's the idea.

    It has been a couple weeks almost, I figure she is back from where ever the hell she went, I just need to get something going again. I just don't want to give her anything that validates her. Basically no "I was thinking about you crap".

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    Default Re: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    why is it so many guys think it's a good thing NOT to give a shit ....You should always give a shit you just dont have to show that you give a shit if you dont want to. She texts you "You have a lovely week" why didn't you respond "have a great trip, and behave yourself" or something along those lines ??? If you are going to text her now say something like "So do you still wanna kiss me ???"
    The idea here is to get her out with you and then go into the whole Kiss Game to see if she will walk the walk;


    The question kiss close: you can play it in two ways. you basecally say out of the blue "would you like to kiss me?"
    If she says yes - Kiss her
    If she says maybe - you say "lets find out" kiss her
    If she says not here - talk for 5 more minutes, Isolate, kiss her.
    If she says no - you say "I didnt say you could, but it looked like you had something in your mind"
    And the other way to play it is saying, "from 1 to 10, how good of a kisser you are?"


    ............. Of course this is all IMHO

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    Default Re: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    This is a heads or tails thing either way if executed well works however either way can also kill you too.

    It seems to me in my opinion you are letting her control the frame that is why you no longer have leverage because quite simply you aren't in control of the situation. She is pulling the strings and you are the marionette.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Girl Said: I really wanna kiss you

    Decided to call her out on what she said. Then got the "Who is this?" text back.

    Oh no you didn't!!!!!!!!!!! Boys, just so you know, when a girl deletes your number, more than likely she did it cause she thought you weren't interested.

    I call her on that, oh "I deleted all my contacts"

    K, sure ya did

    Anyway, short end of the stick, told her to come hang tomorrow and got a "Yeah Sure!"

    I love when a girl gets sooky and deletes my number, twice in the past month!


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