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    Default SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    here is the story.
    i am a bartender. 2 girls at my bar. the one is HB9 easy. she is smoking hot, probably had guys kissing at her feet her whole life. she is super into me I know it. i got her #, did a shot off her chest, asking me to go out for smokes etc. these girls loved me. she is telling me how sexual of a person she is, asking me how many people ive slept with. her friend says she needs someone, or needs a fuck buddy.

    she asks me a few times what im doing after work, but its super late and she is pretty drunk. i say im just going home to have a drink and whatever. she wants to come over, but wants her friend to come. she begs her friend to come, begs me to convince her friend to come. friend will not come, she was arguing with her friend to come join, she REALLY wanted to come over. but her friend wouldnt come, girl was a bit intimidated, or whatever, she snuck out of my bar and didnt come over.

    i have her # and i have to get a second chance with this girl. i need to call or text her to set something up.

    i wanna say something about how i wouldve loved if she made it over, but probably a good thing she didnt because she was drunk.. we were talking pretty sexually and this girl wants a good boyfriend or fuck buddy.

    DUDES< what do i text or call this girl about, and when. i work tomorrow night, feel like i should text or call in a day or two. how do i get this girl to come back around?? she was super into me i just need to see her again and its on.

    please fellas, help a bro out.

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    Text her for a little, then tell her to call you (forces her out of her comfort zone and makes her come to you). Keep the call short; tell her you don't have much time... then make plans for tonight because you're craving _________.

    If you're busy tonight, keep her interested over the weekend (doesn't mean everyday) then try what I suggest when it's convenient for you.
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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    thanks for getting back man. i must say, i was leaning towards calling her on mon or tues (shows that im not too eager, plus a phone call is more confident..?)
    i feel like i really need to say something about, how its probably a good thing she didnt come over last night because id rather meet the sober Sarah.. or whatever. i work again tonight and wasnt going to text or call till tomorrow or mon.. was kinda hoping she would text me today, so we will see
    you feel pretty strongly about the couple of short texts before the phone call though?

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    The longer you wait the harder it may be to get in touch or otherwise.eithers ways when you engage be brief as said.dont be too eager to ask out but take the shot if you get iois.

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    The only reason I suggest a few texts is so you can tell her to call you. It's a set up for an interaction. It also disqualifies the potential for her to not answer.... because she's calling/coming to you.

    If you bring up her being dunk, make sure it's light & funny. Pick on her, but don't make her feel bad.
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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    thanks a lot for the advice bimmer. do i text today? we were hanging out till like 3am last night. i go back to work at 7pm tonight. do i wait a day? or just send her a cheeky text for a laugh but not really for conversation..?

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    anyone else have any input? this girl was really into me last night, i have to find a way continue that on phone, text. really cant decide if i text her today (the day after i met her and got her #)

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    Personally, I wouldn't wait. There is no such thing as the 3 day rule or w/e. A girl's attraction is fleeting. I don't know how trashed she was at the time you two started talking, but regardless, you want to keep the attraction momentum. Hopefully, she's not one of those types that would black out and forget the entire nite.

    A cheeky/funny text is good start to spark her emotional response. For example: "Hey, how you feeling? You were pretty trashed the other nite. Anyways, it's X, the 400 lb guy with sweaty armpits you professed your love to and not some dumbass who was trying to pick you up."

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    i think youre right man.. if i really wanna text her/hear back from her, why not eh?
    thanks dude

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    Default Re: SOS!! Aspiring PUA needs advice

    If you are getting strong iois in person then call and hangout and the kiss close at least.if you try to flirt too much here you may overgame her.take it easy you have a bit of attraction sort of.


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