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Thread: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

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    Default How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    I went out for my friends birthday tonight and we met up with one of his long time friends. She's a solid HB8 and this is the first time I met her. I've been slowly working on my game in recent months and this was the perfect time to try out some stuff.

    As the night progressed we ended talking a lot. We developed great rapport, I demonstrated value, negged her when appropriate... etc.

    She friend requested me on facebook. Now I'm not sure how to proceed with her. Unfortunately, my friends girlfriend got way to drunk and we had to cut the night really short. So I never got to say goodbye or anything seeing as we were in different cabs.

    I was thinking of messaging her on facebook with something along the lines of "It was nice seeing you the other night, it's a shame the night had to end so early..."
    but when should I send it? tonight? tomorrow? next week?

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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    The sooner the better. Fark that wait two days sh1t. You gotta do it when your still fresh in their mind. I've made this mistake a many of times. Waiting a couple of days, messaging, no response, waiting a few more days, messaging, no response, the trail will quickly run cold. So jump on it while its hot. If you just met her yesterday she'll have more of a social obligation to respond to you the next day, than she will days after.

    You can send that if you want. It's not the light and fun message you'd typically look to go for, but if she responds, your foot is already in the door and you should be able to proceed for a meet up fairly easily. In other words, shes attracted. Otherwise, think back on the night and about something you talked about. Than regress on that with her in, of course, a joking manner.

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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    So I messaged her yesterday afternoon saying what I was planning on saying along with a reference to something that happened during the night. She responded playfully a couple hours later. However, she's pretty inactive on facebook and she doesn't spend much time on it. Any suggestions on the best way to transition quickly to getting her number?

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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    Something like " before we get any further in this conversation, what's your number?
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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    Or invite her to something, and when she agrees just say "Ok, I'll text you when I get there", 90% of the time she will just say "Oh, but you don't have my number!" and give it to you, and voila.
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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Or invite her to something, and when she agrees just say "Ok, I'll text you when I get there", 90% of the time she will just say "Oh, but you don't have my number!" and give it to you, and voila.
    This could work pretty well. But patience has it's place in most all situations. Your probably not going to get quick replies via FB, generally people aren't on there all the time. Send a couple messages back and forth on there. When her replies quicken, aka she's getting on there more to see if you've messaged, than advance to the phone number. Say something like "Alright FB is eaten up my time, I gotta get stuff done! What's ur number, I'll text ya... if that's okay with you hehe"

    You can take away the end of it if you want, just a little playful

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    Default Re: How to proceed with HB8?? Help needed

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Or invite her to something, and when she agrees just say "Ok, I'll text you when I get there", 90% of the time she will just say "Oh, but you don't have my number!" and give it to you, and voila.
    Lol, I like this one cause it's a slick number close technique.
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