Ive posted this before on how to build attraction and Ive been trying to work on this, so maybe this next week will be different.
I have been able to get several numbers the past few weeks, but through one way or another I'm not breaking through into attraction. I know, I, probably, am screwing up one way or another in several of these instances, but in the ones I'm not I just don't get it.
To the examples...
1. I slept with a girl Ive know for years, but never talked with her or hung out, except once. We were drunk and the next day we hung out, got breakfast and she was interested in hanging out in the future. Hardly responded to my texts and I eventually called, to little avail. Would like to be able to sleep with her again. Other than that, I don't care.. shes kinda a ***
2. I meet a girl at starbucks. Dead tired from the night before. Have a great conversation. She knows im interested. I probably talked too much. Was with another girl (a friend, who I slept with..refer to 1). Afterward, I mix up her name and she doesn't respond to text.
3. Went to a bar late with a friend who is a great wingman. Approached 2 HB's at a table. Have conversation and they plan to meet up with us when they return to town. We get their numbers, but mine doesn't respond to my text the next day. I pushed strong and we will see what becomes of that.
4a. Met a girl I used to work at the same place she currently does. I coax her into teaching me Spanish. I think I should've been more direct in this instance. Planned for coffee tomorrow ( I asked if this "would work for you?" mistake), but she is busy with an out of town friend.
4b. I called today to check on the meet up tomorrow and she informed me of the above. I told her "just let me know when youre not busy" I wanted to be indifferent, but maybe I could've handle this better?
5. I met a girl(Mexican) at school, who would consistently walk by me and I would say, on occasion, "hola, Chiquita" like hey my little love, jokingly. She thought it was funny and I talked to her one day, got her number and planned for her to teach me Spanish too. I called the next day and assertively said.. " lets go get a late luncher at..." It didn't work, she was working and said she would be busy later and tomorrow would be better. So, I set it up and gave a time for earlier today. I did; however, make a mistake and say " do you just want to meet me here.. then, ok where do you live? Ill just come pick up if that works better?....." Anyway, I call about 5 mins after the designated time we set up and no answer. I was kinda busy, so after I got ready I called 15 mins later and no answer.
6. I got a girls number at the gym. I feel I was assertive and confident. I left on a good note, as I had a time-constraint. Texted her later ( a couple of hours) and she texted back a couple of times. I didn't say anything after awhile, because I was tired. And figured I may try back.
7.I met a girl on okcupid. I followed the procedure listedin a thread to outfit my profile and guidelines to message a girl and it worked like a charm, first time. So, I got her number and she lives about 40mins away and we kinda planned to meet at a college, whenever she comes into town for a party. After, the initial meeting, I haven't talked to her.
I guess my point is... I would like for these women to be texting me and calling me saying Oh, Im free today or can you come meet me, blablabla. And if not, at least be compliant when I say lets meet.