Ok so here is a little bit of background info on me and this girl.
We randomly met and started seeing eachother for a while. I got many cues to k - close but I was a super afc at the time and didn't take em. So slowly I did sort of start to put her on a pedestal and what not. She mentioned we 're friends like once at this point, which I gave no power to and ignored. However I farked up and flirted with a blond chick in front of her same day thinking jealousy would make her go crazy, however, I believe I wasn't that deep in the friendzone for that tactic. So after that incident we stopped talking.
So altogether we went on maybe 11 dates 5 of which I was not in the friendzone. So I don't think I was very deep into the friendzone.
Now about 1 month n half later we got together last night and here is the breakdown:
Conversation: childhood experiences, spirituality her friends family and her life, travel.
Now she never talks to me about other guys, EXCEPT ex boy-friends AND basically loser guys who she thought was cool (because they had their own unique dhvs) from the past and mentioned how they made her sexualy uncomfortable like they wanted to rape her type of thing. Also I brought back sex into the conversation. One important thing also she talks about her girl that has boyfriend that are the same different religions as both of us, and said she wanted to learn more about my religion.
Now for kino I could touch her anywhere on her body pretty much. I was talking to her about sex and the size of her boobs, it was kind of cool cause I showed her one of my birthspots on my back n she tried showed me some fake one on her lower back and she pulled up her shirt and pulled her pants down a little, I swear she wasn't wearing panties, regardless I was nice and gentle and just touched just above her crack and that whole area in a very non agressive way. She was comfortable with all that, and didn't mind me touching her at all.
for framewise I owned it I believe, took her off the pedestal and started to disagree more and had a very solid opinion on things, which made her go kind of nuts as she would start to talk a lot more and try and convince me that I'm wrong.
iois that were clear to me:
tons of hair flicks
pupils were super dilated the whole time
after a nasty dhv (Thank you Vin Di Carlo for that one)
She started telling me something funny and we both laughed but I would look the other way and kind of gave her some negative body language and she began to touch me on my arm a few times.
My goal was to own her thoughts kind of, so I gave her this item or prop lets call it that just went with everything so well and she loved it, every time she uses it she will think about me .
She met my mom and said we're friends, which again I gave no power to. Also I saw her today at my neighbourhood gas station, randomly she happnd to be there and when she saw me, her pupils instantly began to dilate and gave me very positive body language and a hug n a kiss. There's a lot more ,which are little details but I don't want this post to be super long, n I think I covered most of the important parts.
So tell me how am I doing? Can I get out of the friendzone and become this girls lover? From what I could understand she wants a super serious relationship no bs, which is exactly what I want with her. Sex is not as important to her as much as the relationship is from what I could make out.
Any other tips? And all advice is appreciated thanks !