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    CaptainMajestic is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Where do I start?

    Alright guys. I'm brand new to this website and even from lurking over threads I feel like I'm brand new to game itself. I've read a lot of material such as the game itself, the mystery method, ect, and I've had a fair amount of success and was doing alright for a while. Right now though I find myself unable to keep up with game today. I need to know where I should start.

    At the moment I'm having trouble with approach anxiety. I have a few good friends ready to sarge I just don't know if I should even be doing that now, or watching some tapes/studying material, or taking baby steps?

    I guess that's what I'm asking. Where should I start both on this website (like where to go/what to read) and out there in the real world. I'm ready to get deep into game and finally get good at this stuff.

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    Default Re: Where do I start?

    Well what I would do is read the thread on all of the lingo that goes on in the threads. However, you could start in many places. You could start sarging immediately but if you have AA badly I would recommend what they did in "The Rules of the Game." Approach random strangers and try to have a conversation with them. They can be male female old young gay straight it doesn't matter. When you do this be aware of your Body Language and theirs get used to starting a conversation with a complete stranger. Also on your spare time read as many threads as you can. There are a lot of guys that know their stuff and can really help you. Good luck on your trials man!

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    Default Re: Where do I start?

    Do em both. Go out sarging and read material. If you want to get in deep, than get in deep. Read books, listen to podcasts, look at forums, and all the while go out sarging. Having friends around you that are willing to talk to girls is going to make it so much easier on you than going out and doing it yourself. Let them push you. Tell them you really want to talk to "that" girl over there, but your scared. Whether or not they console you on the matter or start calling you a pussy, your going to have an external force pushing you to do something that you know you should be doing in the first place. So dive in! Head first, and start swimming. You'll find the surface.

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    CaptainMajestic is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where do I start?

    Dope man. That sounds like spot on advice. Any suggestions for podcasts? I actually listen to a shit load of podcasts but none to do with Game I hadn't even thought of that.

    Also I've read the game, mystery method, a couple others, but any books to get either?

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    ryuzaki21 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Where do I start?

    Try not to read too much material. Just figure out a gameplan and focus on in-field practice. Then work on your sticking points. Reading material without in-field practice would only serve to enhance your AA.

    The best way to get over approach anxiety is to fark around with people. The first thing that you need to do is look people in the eye as you amble through the whatever day game venue.

    1)Ask people for directions even if you aren't looking for any or talk to Hired guns in stores - they are usually very sweet.
    2)Day game approach - I always approach the set from an angle and then stand right in front with my feet some distance apart. Feel free to invade their space.
    3) Whether you go direct or indirect keep the tone of the conversation light, fun and sexual.
    4)The approach must appear spontaneous
    5)Hotter girls respond better - rule of the thumb
    6)Feel good bro. Listen to good music. Having a good wing would also help immensely.
    7)If a set is leaving then you withdraw attention too - I never pursue.
    8)The first few times might not be easy and you may not be having fun but it gets better once your overcome the fear and start approaching
    9)Remember " Rejection is better than being an observer and living life on the sidelines. You are not a vegetable. Feeling like you don't exist is far worse than getting rejected". - It is all about how you handle it mate. Often, a girl that might not have responded well on a specific day will respond better on another when you open her - so no such thing as rejection. Just an opportunity. Focus on your game and not things that are beyond your control.

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    maxtazm is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Where do I start?

    of course you should be out there daygaming!! you know you want to! the only way you get good at this is by putting in time to get the experiences that teach you the social skills you need! you can read a lot of books and posts on this forum but it will never make you good!

    start slow if you need to, ask directions if it's all you can do at first. but eventually you will realize being social like this is a lot of fun and you WILL get addicted to it! just get started.


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