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    KarlBenny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Bad Facebook vs No Facebook

    Hi guys,

    My situation at the moment is: I work at an IT company where there are few girls and i don't meet interesting people there; I have few friends and they are not very social (akward computer programming guys) and my last date & kiss was about 7 or 8 years ago, so things are not going well at all

    Right now I'm trying to change and to meet girls while I am not working, however there is one thing that is causing some damage on my image and a bad impression on new girls that I met: my facebook page.

    My facebook shows everything that I am right now: I have few friends there (80% friends are guys), no photos with girls and basically no comments. Everytime a new girl that I meet checks my facebook, she would find my facebook page very sad and akward because it is almost empty and thats very strange nowadays. I try to defend myself saying that I really don't care about facebook blablabla, but it is obvious that not being active and not having social photos and friends at facebook is causing a bad impression and scare girls a lot.

    The truth is that I really don't care about facebook because I don't have good things to show there, so I prefer to hide. Adding girls that I don't know to my facebook page is out of question because that's very desperate and doesn't match with my personality. If i was passing through great times and have lots of friends, girlfriends and so on, I would be very active at facebook, however I am very lonely right now, I don't have anything good and interesting to show, so I say everyone that I don't use it because I don't care..

    My question is: Should I delete my facebook page or keep a bad facebook page? What would be less akward?

    95% of young people nowadays are on social networks, so not having a facebook page at all would be also very akward..

    Can you give me some hints please? What should I do?

    Cheers

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    ED11356 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Bad Facebook vs No Facebook

    First off, any girl that cares about your social status (or how active you are) on Facebook isn't a girl worth knowing anyway. Any normal girl would not care about that sort of stuff.

    Seriously, I would tell girls to fark off if they required you having a highly social proof FB account as a prerequisite.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    marvilo is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Bad Facebook vs No Facebook

    Why would you have to explain yourself to a girl about your fb page? Her loss if she doesn't want to get know you.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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