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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    She wanted to hook up but you missed it.the directions to her house and well am all warmed up were Indicators of interest.

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    Smooth response after the flake man. That was an excellent line.

    Not sure of your gameplan but personally, I wouldn't text her daily until then. Take a break over the weekend and ask her how her weekend went after. Wait for her to initate a text to you as well to gauge her interest over the week.

    On the day of, I would probably ask her if she's going to wear something sexy that night, that way she will tell you if she's cancelling early in the day rather than you waiting and wasting your night. That's just my aggressive game though.
    OK guys, so here's what's up with the girl that flaked once already on date #2 (said she was sick). We all figured she had interest, since she was texting me occasionally unprovoked.

    We had the date re-set up for Thursday. We set it up on the Saturday after the Friday she flaked on.

    We texted a little until Monday. She mentioned she had some crazy deadlines until Wednesday, to which I said, "so that's why Thursday works well eh" ..

    She said "Yes! By Thursday I'll be free." along with 3 more lines about her day.

    So Thursday at 5pm I texted "I'll see you in a couple hours".

    And here's the rest verbatim:

    HER" I can't They have me so slammed. We launched late. Maybe this weekend?"
    ME: "Ah I leae for Chicago on Saturday. For a week."
    HER: Crap. I forgot. Hmm when you get back? Things will have calmed down then."
    HER" "Sorry, my life is not usually this crazy."
    ME: It's cool. I get back next Saturday. We'll figure something out. You'll have to make the name tags. we'll definitely need them"
    HER: LOL Yes, and bigger signs with an arrow pointing to our faces. Have a great trip!!"
    ME: LOL Perfect

    (2 hours later) She texts me a long description of how frustrating work was today for her. I reply, basically how I understand.

    So guys, she's flaked twice. Once sick, now this. Usually I would think it's BS. but it kinda sounds like she wanted to just push it to the weekend and forgot im out of town.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    This is hard to gauge. She may just be a flake, but I would give her another chance. She seems sincere. I would go for it, personally. Online dating HAS been dicey for me but it's worth a lot of experience for its trial-and-error tactics.

    She might have a few guys she is texting, and her plate is full with that and work so she removed her profile. The good thing is that you're one of the guys. We do the same shit so I wouldn't be too concerned with that though.

    So Thursday at 5pm I texted "I'll see you in a couple hours".
    That's exactly what I was hinting at. Don't invest anything into that date before you know she's committed to it that day.

    It's cool. I get back next Saturday. We'll figure something out. You'll have to make the name tags. we'll definitely need them"
    Again, solid. Nothing bothers you. Total control of your emotions. These responses remind me of things I would say, so I'm naturally impressed, lol.

    So if she bails again, and on a guy with smooth responses like yourself, I would say good riddance. Online dating is a dime-a-dozen.

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Has a low level of attraction due to the fact that you keep asking for the meet.hold that back for now.also check how you ask girls out.in a nutshell build attraction more and handle logistics.

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    A little VICTORY follow-up.

    I stopped contacting her. She text me on Monday asking to go out on Friday. I told her I'd look at my schedule and get back to her.

    Tuesday I confirmed.

    Friday we went out and went back to her place and sealed the deal.

    She asked me out via text two days later after it.

    Good work, team


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