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    Default Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Hey there guys,

    I met a really attractive woman on Match.com last Sunday. We had great repetoire and we kissed at the end of the night after a 2-hour meetup that I ended. After we kissed she said 'Well I'm all warmed up. We're going to do this again, right?"

    So I sent her text on Monday. And on Tuesday I asked her out for tapas Friday night. She replied with directions to her house, etc.

    Thursday she texts "Happy Thanksgiving!" and I reply the same.

    So we're supposed to go out tonight and at 2:30pm, I get this text "Hey [my name] I have to cancel today. I came down with a cold and not feeling too great. Can we plan maybe next week."

    I REPLY: "Clearly you ate too much turkey. no biggie. I leave town for a week next Friday so before that works'

    SHE REPLIES : " Let's shoot for thursday then".

    I REPLY: "OK Thursday 8pm. Hopefully we remember what each other looks like "

    She replies "I don't know.. we may want to bring signs that have our names on them to be sure "

    So why am I paranoid?

    Well she took down her Match.com profile today.

    AND she basically took the last possible day to see each other, a Thursday.

    Am I being paranoid - thoughts?

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Yes, you are being paranoid. Sounds like you did a great job on the first date. Probably could have done more. There are tons of reasons she may have taken down her profile- rule of thumb- push for dates as soon as possible until after you sleep with her. Before then, it's open season for her to meet another guy that sleeps with her first and takes her off the market.
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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Yeah, we made out at the end on that Sunday date.

    Thanksgiving slowed down the process, which is why I asked for Friday date.

    So just stay the course and wait for Thurs? You're cool with how I played text game?

    Thanks dude

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Yes, very paranoid. This lack of confidence is going to undo you, so you need to really work on your inner game.

    The fact that she initiated text with you = strong IOI
    The fact that she flaked, but asked to reschedule = good IOI
    The fact that you k-closed on the first date = great progress.

    Most guys who post on the boards asking for advice can't even get this level of high interest target. If you keep second guessing yourself and your inner game is weak, she will see right through you and your worst fears will come to fruition. Fix it ASAP. A confident person believes and lives by the mantra "I don't have to prove anything to anyone, including myself."

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Quote Originally Posted by I.M.Mortal View Post
    Yes, very paranoid. This lack of confidence is going to undo you, so you need to really work on your inner game.

    The fact that she initiated text with you = strong IOI
    The fact that she flaked, but asked to reschedule = good IOI
    The fact that you k-closed on the first date = great progress.

    Most guys who post on the boards asking for advice can't even get this level of high interest target. If you keep second guessing yourself and your inner game is weak, she will see right through you and your worst fears will come to fruition. Fix it ASAP. A confident person believes and lives by the mantra "I don't have to prove anything to anyone, including myself."
    Thanks dude. You're right. Sometimes I just need to hear it from another PUA, know what I mean?

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Mortal, you seem like a really smart dude. Check out my other post (about third date) if you have any ideas on this second plate of mine

    Thanks man

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Is your text game good ?
    There's a lot that can be improved. You qualify way too much. Should really just be pushing for meet up, but it's better than most new guys out there
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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Thanks man. Can you elaborate more on how I qualified too much?

    I've already met her once. This would be the second date. Check my list of texts and tell me what you think (above).

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    ya you don't need to worry and be paranoid like that. just expect to get whatever you ask for.

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    Default Re: Your Opinion Wanted: Am i Getting Blown Off

    Smooth response after the flake man. That was an excellent line.

    Not sure of your gameplan but personally, I wouldn't text her daily until then. Take a break over the weekend and ask her how her weekend went after. Wait for her to initate a text to you as well to gauge her interest over the week.

    On the day of, I would probably ask her if she's going to wear something sexy that night, that way she will tell you if she's cancelling early in the day rather than you waiting and wasting your night. That's just my aggressive game though.
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