hey whatsup guys gotta dilemma here.
I've been txting and hb8 for the past month or so. well more like she was gaming me, texting me snapchatting me etc all the time. she Just broke up with her bf. Anyway our convos were going really good, she was all over me and super flirty etc, wanting to hang out all the time. we met up at a club n hooked up but i didnt take her home. Shit was going WELL
-side note, she loves attention and i know many other dudes that text her. so theres competition
-she used to say im hot etc.. so there is/was for sure attraction form her too.
-she just got out of a LONG relationship so i understand shes probably looking to play the field for a bit
she always suggested to chill/do stuff but we never made any plans.
so i invited her out last week.but she had already made other plans (pretty sure with another dude.
And so i decided to try a freeze out cuz our interactions were getting different/duller and there wasnt as much flirting from her. i also saw that i was starting to get one-itis and was turning into a needy puss.
its been a week of basically no contact now. No initiation via fbook posts from her, txts, etc anymore. nothing. If it goes on too long should i
-just leave it, and wait for another opportunity in the future to rebuild attraction/ get back my original high value.
-or should i persist and continue a little bit of contact every now and then to keep a presence. (feels pretty low value of me tho)
-or just forget her and find another
"ps leaning towards wanting LTR at this point.
SO the question is: Persistence? or fresh start? or any other advice