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    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Is the opener that important?!

    Hi all,

    I've been doing day game for months but have not had much success. I'm trying to find out what is the problem. I've been coached by two coaches and both say you are fine but I believe something is not correct otherwise I would have some success at least!

    Today I approached a check and said "Sorry I saw you at blah blah and I thought you are pretty so I had to come and meet you".

    Then she said "that's it?!"

    Then I thought if she is not affected by the opener or the way I delivers it the opener should be more important than I think.

    Do you think I have to say the opener in a specific way or even say something else?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Is the opener that important?!

    Nah, it's not as important as it is made out to be. If your coming in real creepy, than it might blow you right out of the water, but the attraction phase itself is really what's important when your starting out with the game. It's really about what your following it up with.

    Her: That's it!?
    Me: You got something better? What would you say to me to start a conversation?

    Should bring you right into some banter, and almost like an indirect opener, you can go back and forth for a couple minutes. Maybe near 5 minutes you should hit a hook point and snag a number. But it's those 5 minutes that's important, not the opener itself. Your troubles seem to be in the attraction phase as a whole. Keep doing what your doing, and your practice will bring you some results as you become more comfortable with some banter. Keep it light and fun (as always) and work on switching into a new thread.


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