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Thread: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

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    Default Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    Hey Guys, been a long time since Ive posted.

    Thought I should return as I still have'nt gotten to where I wanna be, and it bugs me.

    I'd like to be better at hot & cold with women. had this one-nighter with this 20yr old last week, week before she was spitting her game about wanting love and how shes not good enough or pretty enough. I believed her. we had sex and then next day she tells me "im busy atm"...after a couple of days of me texting her she says to me 'dont hate the game, hate the player...a game which you dont seem to know how to play" F*ck, that pissed me off, cuz I actually id like her. Now I'm currently sleeping with two other women, a steady girl and a stripper, but this girl was pretty good.

    Can you guys give me some examples of hot & cold so I can be better at keeping the girl for the future. im still i ncontact with this 20 yr old, but i wont text her again unless she inittiates text.

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    Default Re: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    I hate that i get attached so easily. It depresses the sh*t out of me. this girl heard some badass stuff about me, and i feel like i flopped her expectations because of my lack of game.
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    Default Re: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    Hey Ecko30,

    Great post. It's cool that you are reaching out for advice and feedback on your game.

    It sounds like you want to know more about building attraction through push/pull (hot and cold). There are a lot of great threads all ready posted here that you can search and read up on.

    What I really think that you want is feedback on your game with this girl. If you post the actual text messages (screen shots are best), then the forum can give you the feedback that will help you the most.

    Keep posting and gaming brother
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    Default Re: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    Hey Thanks Alot bro,

    I appreciate your advice. I do want to learn about push/pull. and ya ill post my texts...the only texts i have left are the ones where I'm tryin to kind of win her back (I said some rude stuff when she kept blowing me off, I know..that was weak) so yes ill post my redemption texts for advice. I actually do want to get this girl in bed again and she seems to have no attraction towards me now.
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    Default Re: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    Hey Tom, I tried finding posts on push/pull. couldnt find when i typed that in search? alot of threads came up but nothing really specific...
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    Default Re: Back to the game. questio nabout hot & cold

    Any pua book you pick up will talk about push/pull. Don't use this "hot and cold" language. In the PUA community, it is push/pull. Grab any book, look at any post, you'll see it.

    Push/pull is the underlying premise of all attraction. The best advice I've seen on it is to always keep them guess. To give off push/pull signals at the same time. If your body language is all pull, then make your verbal communication all push, and vice versa.

    Anyways, look up a search for (push AND pull) using Boolean logic. You'll find too much to go through.
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